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• 2022/02/12 (Sat) 13:31
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Visa girls who don't have a decent job should stop.

• 無理
• 2022/02/12 (Sat) 17:55
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I can't marry this tope anymore.

• 玉の輿
• 2022/02/12 (Sat) 18:21
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You should marry a man thinking he'll cheat on you
so choose someone who can make money

and if you have a husband and no interest in sex after you have kids, I'd appreciate it if you have someone outside of the home to keep you company ？ lol

• のん
• 2022/02/12 (Sat) 22:13
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Maybe the person you choose will cheat on you.
Maybe you shouldn't get married? You can't find a husband who won't cheat on you if you can't live your own life.
I'm sorry.
Find your own life instead of finding a husband.
Live strong.

• またマウントBBAが出た
• 2022/02/12 (Sat) 22:46
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nameless, right ？ lol
you are so delusional and judgmental
your husband cheated on you, you are so needlessly involved
you should find your own life


topix

who you marry
In the end, only you can know if you are happy

No one wants to be cheated on, but you have to believe in it. If he does, you can think about it again then.
If you're going to be tied down, men won't like you either. You don't need a husband who cheats on you. Even if you break up with him, you will meet someone even more wonderful, so why not?

Are you happy to marry someone you love
Are you happy to marry someone stable
Are you happy to marry someone who loves you

Ask yourself, not others

If you want children If you want to have children, choose someone who wants to have children
Someone who is not rich but has a good income
Marriage is a contract
No matter how much you love someone, if you cannot make money
you will have a hard time after marriage
Even if you are ready for that, you will have a hard time when you are older
If you have money, you will feel more comfortable

The best thing is to be financially independent yourself

No matter what your partner is like, if you have the ability to live on your own, you will have more options for your partner.

• またマウントBBAが出た
• 2022/02/12 (Sat) 23:09
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> Men who ask you to marry them don't cheat on you.

Unfortunately, those who do do.
Of course there are a few men who would never do it.
The problem is that it goes from a physical affair to a mental affair.

It is often the case that those who have an affair partner
value their family more than those who have an affair partner.

Stories of loving husbands who have had affairs for many years are not uncommon.

• tonkotsu
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 02:23
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Topy
If you don't have your own wishes, you shouldn't get married.
Especially Americans prefer women who know Confidence, What I want
If you want to marry, I think it is better to marry a Japanese man living in Japan who is not hated even if he is indecisive.

Men and women who want to cheat on their spouse should not marry
so as not to betray their spouse.
You should be free to have multiple partners OK each other for life.

• 関係ない
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 07:29
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↑ Men with money and men without money cheat on each other

Marrying a man without money even takes away his assets

• これは一理ある
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 07:32
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If you want to marry a Japanese man, I think you should marry a Japanese man who lives in Japan, because Americans in particular prefer women who know Confidence, What I want.

Rather, Japanese men tend to like weak women
I married an American because Japanese men are weak.

• 関係ない
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 07:55
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In LA, I'm thinking $100k a year minimum
If you have a family, you need at least 20-30k to have a family, it's tough.

• 関係ない
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 08:09
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You should expect most men to cheat on you
If I had to guess, I'd say men with no sex drive might be the least likely to cheat on you

Topi, if you marry a man with no sex drive and an income ？
If he's much older, you can pick and choose.
Marriage is a long time. Even if it's good at the time,
someday a woman may be attracted to other men because she wants something she doesn't have.

If you are too timid and get older, your strike zone will become even narrower. People with little life experience have high aspirations, and as you get older, your choices are limited. If you are a woman with a big heart, you may be in demand, but if you put yourself on the back burner and demand high standards from your partner, you will always be complaining. Don't forget that men have the right to choose as well.

In the end, if you are the one who is chosen, you will have no trouble.

• 呆れる
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 08:41
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>Every man cheats on his wife
You need to work on yourself for a while.

He changes what he says so much.

• 呆れる
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 08:42
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The more people make fun of others, the more afraid they are of being made fun of

Let's leave them alone

• 未婚がバレた
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 09:01
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You don't have alimony or anything ？ California. 50 ／ 50 has.

• テストステロン高い俺
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 09:26
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＞ ＞ Topi, if you marry a man with an income who has no sex drive ？

A man with no sex drive will not get ahead.

• 目くそ鼻くそ
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 09:45
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Most of the housewives around here are cheating on their husbands.

• 慰謝料
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 10:02
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No alimony, but the adulterer is at a disadvantage in custody.

• 関係ないよ
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 10:05
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＞ ＞ Topi, if you marry a man with an income who has no sex drive ？

> A man with no sex drive will not get ahead.

Mr. Black has a great sex drive but he doesn't work
I can't be happy or sad.

• 関係ないよ
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 10:06
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A woman's enemy is a woman

A woman who is cheating on her husband would never tell her housewife friends that she is cheating on him.

• 不思議
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 10:08
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None of the people around me are cheating either.

I mean, who cheats on you so that you can usually tell ？.

• 関係ないよ
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 10:09
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Women have a lower rate of cheating simply because having children makes them more motherly than women. They lose interest in men out of instinct.

• 不思議
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 10:10
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That's right. If you say it, it will spread everywhere.
I wonder if the couple is making their affair public.

• 関係ないよ
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 10:11
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I think
even if they do, they usually don't tell ？
if they find out, it's a divorce issue

• テストステロン高い俺
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 10:18
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＞ ＞ Mr. Black has a great sex drive but doesn't work

It's no surprise that he is young and sexually active.
Only a limited number of people can work vigorously past 50.
Look at Trump.

• 関係ないよ
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 10:23
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Sorry for the racist comment

but a high sex drive has nothing to do with career advancement.

• 発言が
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 10:33
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I'm saying that NON is a mess

ummm and no name and NON are the same person.

• うーん、うーん
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 10:35
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>I love people who apologize properly
because they are too proud to apologize for anything

and only people who say that don't apologize
themselves

nobody ＝ hmm ＝ non

• うーん、うーん
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 10:38
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> I don't want to be a complainer and a complainer. Financial freedom is important for that.

I said to myself that only people who say
they complain and complain a lot !

• 科学で証明されている
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 10:51
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＞ ＞ High libido has nothing to do with career success

Successful people generally have high testosterone levels.

• 関係ない
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 11:00
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There are often people here who are like this, like data is everything
I think it's more common among men.

Some people are successful but don't have a strong sex drive.
Some people have too strong a sex drive and commit crimes.

By the way, it is also unclear how much success you call success.

• 。。。
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 11:16
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↑ You always look up to me because I can't see your face
You must be a very nice person lol
You don't seem to be popular with the ladies

• のん
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 11:21
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What's so fucked up about it?
You think all men cheat? I hate to think it, but
what is the reality?
As long as you're chasing man, man, marriage, marriage, you'll never find the right one?
You're right!

• 男性1
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 11:34
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27 years old

• 。。。
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 11:37
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？
It's not about age, it's just as long as they look good. Even if they are young, it's hard to look at them in a miniskirt with radiant legs, and even if they are old and thin, wrinkled legs and cellulite will make them look bad.

If you have beautiful legs, you can be any age.

• では
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 11:50
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Question for 58

What do you think of Risa Hirako ？?

• 男性3
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 11:55
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If you want to wear them, you can wear them at any age

but if you want to be popular with men, you either have to fit in with their tastes

or you can be yourself and find someone who will love you for it

Which is happier

to be liked by someone you love? You are free to think that you want to be liked by the person you love, but in the end, regardless of gender, the person who is confident in himself or herself will be chosen

It's fine if you are happy by conforming to the other person, but you will not be happy with the person you have to conform to by losing sight of yourself

This is my personal opinion

• 経験
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 12:04
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It is not correct to say that every man cheats. Because some men don't cheat.
And it's not because he has a strong sex drive that he cheats.
Because his wife doesn't play with him ＆ he becomes less and less attractive, so she doesn't want to hold him.
So I think it is wrong to blame only the husband who cheated.

• 関係ないよ
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 12:25
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No.
In general, no matter what people say, it is worse to cheat on your wife
That's why you cheat on her behind her back ？
It is selfish to think it is worse to be cheated on, but if it is not bad, why not ask your wife permission to go have another woman now? ？ lol
you know it's bad when you hide it ？

of course it says there are some who don't.
Yes, there are some men who can be satisfied with one woman, but those who can do it with the same partner all the time are probably in the minority. Some people, no matter how beautiful their wives are, are not eligible when it comes to their own.
There is nothing sadder than having an unfaithful partner who is less good looking than you. LOL

What I want to say is rules are rules
You can't have sex with someone other than your husband or wife

Especially in America, it's a marital duty to satisfy sexual desires
Maybe because there are so many ways to escape if you cheat on your wife, or maybe there is no alimony.......in sight
There is only the fact that you cheated on your wife
In exchange, if you have a decent income, you can't escape from child support
America has a better system to protect children

Is there a problem with the person who cheats on his/her wife or the person who cheated on his/her wife? Whether there is a problem with the person being cheated on or the person who did it, it's a useless fight with no way out.
Don't cheat. That is the rule.

• いやいや
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 15:30
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Fluttering miniskirts should be graduated in your 20s.
Even fluttering depends on the design.

• アメリカは
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 21:22
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It doesn't even matter the fact that I cheated on him. It doesn't matter in court that you had an affair.
It only becomes a divorce if one of you wants a divorce. And the common property will be split 50/50.
And if they have been married for more than 10 years, the one with the higher income will be made to pay alimony to the one with the lower income. And child support.

So rules are not rules. There is a law that says you can't cheat on your wife ？
If there was a law that says you can't have sex with someone other than your spouse after marriage, that would be a rule, but there is no such law, so that's not going to be challenged in court. The rule is that if one of you wants a divorce, you get a divorce. If you get divorced within 10 years, you don't even have to pay alimony.

I asked a divorced person, no ？.

• 関係ないよ
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 21:38
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↑ That's why I said there is no alimony in the US ？ I never said it was the law -

It's an unspoken rule not to have sex with anyone but your spouse after marriage. LOL I didn't swear at my wedding ？ If not, why do you cheat on your wife behind her back ？ LOL If it wasn't a rule, you would all be open with each other.

By the way, child support after a divorce and splitting the cost depends on the lawyer. The more money you have, the better lawyer you can hire. If you have no income, you are at a disadvantage. Because you can't prolong the trial because the lawyer's fee will be higher. They don't take fees for cheating, but depending on the situation, there may be factors that can be used against you for custody. This is what my friend told me, so I can't be sure, but it wouldn't hurt to keep the evidence.

• 関係ないよ
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 21:45
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Adultery is not against the law, and you don't have to pay alimony.
So it sounds like you are saying it is ok to do it, but can you say that to your friends ？ lol

But if they find out, you will be embarrassed and your relationship will end. I don't think I would be friends with someone who has an affair. Frankly, I don't think I would let my children socialize with each other either. If it was found out at work, my character would be questioned.

• キモい
• 2022/02/13 (Sun) 23:36
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＃ 68 I guess they had an affair. 、、、、 too desperate

• あらら
• 2022/02/14 (Mon) 06:19
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There's always some desperate affirmation on the adultery topic.
He says it's bad that his wife's side doesn't take care of him.

Poor guy who had an affair and got divorced because his wife wouldn't play along.
If you stay single for the rest of your life ？ lol

• 東出昌大
• 2022/02/14 (Mon) 06:54
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I lost everything.

Chan.

• レンさん
• 2022/02/14 (Mon) 10:34
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>, I asked a divorced person, no ？

your real life experience ？.

• また出たマウントBBA
• 2022/02/14 (Mon) 10:37
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> ＃ 68 I guess they had an affair 、、、、 too desperate

why blame the adulterer ？

• 関係ないよ
• 2022/02/14 (Mon) 10:46
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>> I asked a divorced person, no ？

> I know it's your real life experience ？

It happens all the time. LOL

I don't understand what kind of nerve people have to be grossed out or make fun of someone who has had an affair. LOL I think people like this are the ones who have affairs, but please don't look like you're going to hell when you get caught - LOL!

• Omg
• 2022/02/14 (Mon) 20:06
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I've been seeing a lot of people making assumptions for a few days now.

• 醤油屋
• 2022/02/15 (Tue) 18:22
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A few years ago, an expatriate who had an affair with a local employee was reported to the Japanese headquarters.

• で？
• 2022/02/15 (Tue) 21:23
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> A few years ago, an expat who had an affair with a local employee was tipped off by the Japanese headquarters. lol

What happened ？?

• あれ？
• 2022/02/16 (Wed) 08:00
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They should have insulated themselves from the slanderous, rumor-mongering Japanese ？.

• 金魚妻
• 2022/02/16 (Wed) 15:12
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It's funny, you should see it.

• 仲間探し
• 2022/02/16 (Wed) 15:22
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Looks like it's full of unattractive men

who contact you even though you write that it's for women only

Don't be embarrassed.

• 小林醤油
• 2022/02/16 (Wed) 22:09
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I heard he became the man of the hour at his headquarters in Japan lol.

• 苦手
• 2022/02/18 (Fri) 08:13
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People who don't like to brag and are bitten by stories of misfortune.

• 案外
• 2022/02/18 (Fri) 08:31
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94, the person may have meant to ask How are they doing? and just asked if there was something wrong with you guys ？.

• 苦手
• 2022/02/18 (Fri) 08:40
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↑ I can tell by the expression on your face.

• 苦手
• 2022/02/18 (Fri) 10:21
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People who ask a lot of questions about age, marriage, children, etc. when they first meet someone don't introduce themselves first before asking the other person ？ ？.

• わざわざ書かんでも
• 2022/02/20 (Sun) 12:11
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It's hard to break up a relationship, but it's hard to break up a heart.

• ムー大陸
• 2022/02/20 (Sun) 12:35
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A man with a gambling habit
He will eventually have a debt problem and file for bankruptcy. His house, car, boat, and motorcycle are all taken.

• JENNI
• 2022/02/20 (Sun) 13:56
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It seems to be difficult for extremely lonely people or people who want to be bothered. If his wife is busy and doesn't pay attention to him
, he gets frustrated and tries to find someone else. It is good if he has a hobby that he can pass the time with.
She is a person who has her own world.
（ This is true for both men and women ）.

• わざわざ書かんでも
• 2022/02/20 (Sun) 14:03
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> But when the slander has spread to thousands of people and has been that way for years, you can't just ignore it.

Celebrities ？
That's not part of the job ？

• わざわざ書かんでも
• 2022/02/20 (Sun) 14:05
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> When I married a single-minded person, I really enjoyed my life

I think it's great that you are happy with just that.
I am happy with anyone because I don't need someone else to make me happy, I can be happy by myself.

• 新世代
• 2022/04/07 (Thu) 22:46
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It's not that there is no attraction other than money. LOL!

• いいえ
• 2022/04/07 (Thu) 22:55
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I don't think he has any money either.

• よくある話
• 2022/04/08 (Fri) 07:48
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Choose someone who hides the fact that he/she has money at first, and whose attitude does not change when he/she finds out that he/she has money. There are quite a few people who take it for granted that you will buy them a drink if they have money.

• 嘘はすぐバレる
• 2022/04/08 (Fri) 08:56
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He makes 90 million a year, but his ideas are stingy.

• 最初が肝心
• 2022/04/08 (Fri) 09:21
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Women who take it for granted that men pay
Women who are willing to split the bill

People's personalities do not change, so it is a matter of whether you can choose your ideal partner rather than demanding your ideal of the partner you like


The first step is to find out.
It is impossible to ask someone with too different standard of living to split the cost, so either you lower your standard of living, or if you want to maintain your standard of living, you look for someone with the same standard of living

You are fundamentally choosing the wrong partner, so you will be dissatisfied later on.
But it is also true that feelings of love are often born with someone you don't understand

So it is difficult.

• 知り合いの女性は
• 2022/04/08 (Fri) 09:53
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They didn't let us have luxuries because it was uneconomical to be fat.

• 最初が肝心
• 2022/04/08 (Fri) 10:01
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If that's the only thing you don't like, just go out to dinner less often and say you want a home-cooked meal. She's your girlfriend.

• 情けない
• 2022/04/08 (Fri) 14:07
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if you fall in love with someone, you lose

• 情けない
• 2022/04/08 (Fri) 15:52
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They say if you're not popular, you don't have a choice.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2022/04/09 (Sat) 08:53
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How to recognize what not to get involved in

Resentment, hatred, envy, backbiting, angry people

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2022/04/09 (Sat) 10:17
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Relationships with others are about relationships

Resentment, hatred, envy, backbiting, becoming angry

Don't get involved if you show signs of it

• 笑
• 2022/04/09 (Sat) 20:19
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> How to recognize what not to get involved in
Resentment, hatred, envy, backbiting, angry people

You are the Showa era itself.

• ブルー
• 2022/04/10 (Sun) 06:50
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I think there is something wrong with people who always have trouble with love （ including marriage ）.
Especially those who are repeating it even after they are in their mid-forties, they are the only ones who don't realize it, and the people around them can see the cause of it.

• 色々話したい
• 2022/04/10 (Sun) 18:29
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I'm surprised at how many couples over here have divorced and remarried many times.
It's normal that one of the parents is not related to the other ？
Also, there are a lot of people who have disabilities ？ or have a level of intelligence
that is not from developed countries
and they are very assertive about their rights and if you marry such a person, it will be difficult later. I thought it would be hard.
I thought Japanese people are really good when I came here.
Even if you don't get married, you can get by if you have money.
Many people learn from divorce ？.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2022/06/26 (Sun) 07:05
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If you keep being inflexible and insistent, you will also get away with it.

• 面倒くさ
• 2022/06/26 (Sun) 10:41
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You fail because you didn't have the eyes to choose the right person for you

The cause is always you

As long as you blame the other person, you will always be dissatisfied.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2022/06/26 (Sun) 12:55
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He has the soul to be a pimp, and he can get away with it because he is a monster.

• ピカッ
• 2022/06/26 (Sun) 14:54
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You should marry, for example
a guy like me

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2022/06/26 (Sun) 16:45
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Yes, a pimp is a man.
The husband is living as a pimp with no income while his wife works.
He goes to the casino every day, and then he can't make ends meet, so he puts his wife to work in the nightlife.

He married her because he was told that he would make her happy, which was a big mistake.

• あほ
• 2022/06/26 (Sun) 19:01
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↑ when did you ？ lol
there ain't no women like that nowadays

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2022/06/27 (Mon) 07:20
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I have a secret I can't tell anyone.

He got away... He got away...

The catch that got away is big...

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2022/06/27 (Mon) 08:07
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A man who lives off of women,
A man who lives off of women,
A man who lives off of women,
A man who skillfully gets help from women, etc.


A man who can live a cool life by paying tribute with luxury condos and luxury cars

https://ja.wikipedia.org/wiki/%E3%82%B8%E3%82%B4%E3%83%AD

• 、
• 2022/06/27 (Mon) 09:00
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Cool
I think so.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2022/06/27 (Mon) 10:26
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↑ Just thinking so
will not accomplish anything.

• あほ
• 2022/06/27 (Mon) 10:33
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I'm not sure a guy who gets paid in tribute and drives a fancy car is ever going to be cool
If that's fine with you, fine.

• 元旅人
• 2022/06/27 (Mon) 11:30
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Go to Southeast Asia and you'll find plenty of pimp men.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2022/06/27 (Mon) 11:41
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It's not cool to others, that's a given.
I know better when the world I live in changes after being given something I can't afford.

168 You would be a tribute man in Southeast Asia.

• あほ
• 2022/06/27 (Mon) 12:08
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I can earn my own money
If I have to pay tribute to buy something, I'm a cat and a mouse
The less valuable people are, the more value they place on brands

• 仲間探し
• 2022/06/27 (Mon) 12:40
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Company owner, 30s

Even with such favorable conditions, there's only one reason you'd look for a girlfriend here. LOL!

• 落とし穴
• 2022/06/27 (Mon) 13:08
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When you say you run a company, you're a loser

If you have money, you want to hide the fact that you have money.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2022/06/27 (Mon) 16:35
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Some spend generously because they can earn their own money, but
they keep their own money carefully hidden and spend the money they contribute.
Which is the wiser way?

• 恥
• 2022/06/27 (Mon) 16:58
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↑ not clever,
just sly and impatient

• 結婚の意義
• 2022/10/01 (Sat) 07:29
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The system seems to have been created in the first place so that the state would not have the burden of raising children
Smart people don't get married.

• いやいやいや
• 2022/10/01 (Sat) 11:56
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All billionaires are married.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2022/10/03 (Mon) 08:30
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If you make more money than a man who doesn't, but lives a fancy life,
your finances are on fire, whether you make money or not.

• 笑笑
• 2022/10/03 (Mon) 15:24
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and let's leave the ones who eventually swear too.

• s
• 2022/10/05 (Wed) 14:11
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Swearing and gossip are the same thing ？.

• 空飛ぶ、
• 2023/03/05 (Sun) 07:38
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Can you fight, and then make an effort to change, and will they try to change too?

• 人は変わらない
• 2023/03/06 (Mon) 15:55
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People who can be themselves.