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Vivinavi Hawaii
About Friends（45view/0res）		 Relationship / Friendship Yesterday 17:23
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Adultery More Common After Pandemic?（1kview/2res）		 Relationship / Friendship 2025/04/10 08:05
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firend（997view/0res）		 Relationship / Friendship 2024/09/29 12:08
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For girls who are in the process of getting marrie...（14kview/31res）		 Relationship / Friendship 2023/11/23 11:46
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Couple Counseling（2kview/1res）		 Relationship / Friendship 2023/08/06 03:48
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Vivinavi Portland
Valentine's - where to find a Japanese partne...（1kview/0res）		 Relationship / Friendship 2023/02/11 19:08
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Urayasu Citizens Only Wedding Plan（1kview/0res）		 Relationship / Friendship 2022/05/10 16:25
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Vivinavi Nagano
Yui × Migration Online social event to connect new...（605view/0res）		 Relationship / Friendship 2021/11/11 11:03
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this weekend（1kview/0res）		 Relationship / Friendship 2021/09/28 14:04
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男性方に筆問です。（49kview/73res）		 Relationship / Friendship 2020/12/14 21:52
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Vivinavi Hawaii
About Friends

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  • 友達
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  • Yesterday 17:22

Hi ！
Nice to meet you and post.
I have been in Hawaii for 10 years.
I have a husband and elementary school aged children.
When my children were young, I had a good amount of friends who were moms
but now I only have one friend.
I think I have a difficult
personality, because after getting to know them well, I find I don't like them
and fade away from them. I am also sensitive
to the words of others.
I am not good in large groups either.
I want to keep a good relationship with everyone, but it doesn't go well
.
I feel lonely
with only one friend after 10 years of being here.
I'm also tired of having a relationship where we always party every week
(I had a friend like that before) ？ I wonder if I'm being selfish

How have you dealt with it ? <2069>
I would like to get your advice.

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Vivinavi Los Angeles
Adultery More Common After Pandemic?

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  • Yutaka_zo
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  • 2025/03/05 17:48

Do you think more people have engage in adultery more afte the pandemic since people were home more often?

Not gonna lie. Not really happy in my marriage but can’t divorce my wife. Is there a lot of Japanese married women that engage in adultery? How and where do they look if I would assume most work from home or take care of the home?

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  • 2025/03/06 (Thu) 18:40
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It's been quite a while since the pandemic.
There's been a temporary increase in working from home, but not nearly back to where it was before the pandemic ？

And I don't understand how it makes sense that if people stay home more often, there will be more infidelity.

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Vivinavi Las Vegas
firend

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  • t&f
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  • 2024/09/29 12:08

I am currently working in a Japanese restaurant
I can't make friends of my age.
I don't speak English, but I can't make friends my own age.
How do you find friends?
I've been told that I should be proactive and talk to them.

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Vivinavi Hawaii
For girls who are in the process of getting married

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  • Allure
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  • 2023/10/01 13:47

I am a woman living in Hawaii.

I heard from a male friend of mine who is engaged to be married.

He said that girls who are Japanese tourists and are engaged to be married don't know too much about the high cost of living in Hawaii.

You shouldn't say you want to get married, move to Hawaii and become a housewife.

No matter how beautiful you are, how healthy you are, how good your character is, marriage is a life.

Most couples living in Hawaii work together. Even the wives of doctors.

The cost of living is 2-3 times that of Japan. Japan is the only developed country where prices and incomes have remained almost the same for decades. Hawaii is America, so men and women are equal. It is not uncommon to find couples where the wife earns more than the husband.

If you want to have children, you should earn your own money as well as your husband's.

If your husband has already paid off the mortgage, that's still fine, but if you both buy the house and pay for it together, you can pay it off faster and have more credit in your own history in the future.

If the husband dies first, the wife won't even get a survivor's pension until she is in her 60s.

Too few companies will hire a Japanese woman in her 60s who has never worked in Hawaii at all.

Start working in your 20s, 30s, and 40s to gain experience. I used to be a tourist living in Japan, so I would be very happy if I could be of help.

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  • 2023/10/30 (Mon) 14:18
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#27 P

So you get married, regret it, and get divorced.

You finally meet a man who makes the same or more money than you and remarry. Japanese women.

If you live in Hawaii, there are many Hawaii men looking for Japanese women. Regardless of nationality.

Japanese women are popular not only with Asian, Middle Eastern, and mixed, but also with white and black men, so good luck Japanese men ！ ！.

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#29

Are white men still popular these days ？
I don't think so in Hawaii.
I feel that there are surprisingly many people who remarry Japanese after divorcing white men.

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  • 2023/11/19 (Sun) 20:14
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＃ 29 Ichi-san

I guess it's a matter of fate and preference.

Some people have a Japanese husband the first time in Japan and a white husband the second time in Hawaii, and a black husband.

Some people are also white the second time and black the second time.

I have never met a Japanese man living in Hawaii whose wife is not Japanese （ White Black Asian other ）.

I still wonder if many Japanese men are looking for Japanese women.

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  • 2023/11/20 (Mon) 00:55
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Yes, I agree.
Japanese women have married and remarried to people of various races, not only Caucasians.

Japanese men have only met Japanese women who are wives.
If there are any men here in Vivinavi who have wives of non-Japanese race
I would be happy to hear various opinions.

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#32

Dear Second and Two

Thank you for your reply. I learned a lot.
It is a marriage, isn't it?

But have you married or remarried a white or black man
and has it lasted ？ long?

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Vivinavi Hawaii
Couple Counseling

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  • Kanikani22
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  • 2023/08/06 03:28

I'm sorry, I just wanted to post this to see if anyone knows anything about this.

If anyone has been to couples counseling, I would like to know the good and the bad ？

I had to quit my job, and now that I quit, I spend more time with my husband, and I am very stressed and worried. We both don't want a divorce.　He is usually a good person when he is in a good mood, as well as in terms of finances in his old age.


Maybe it's his age, but ？ he talks more intimidatingly than before.
When I point it out, he says I'm wrong, and when I start recording him, he takes on a kinder tone.
He is not fair. ！ In front of a third party, he is a quiet husband.

I see couples counseling in movies, so I wonder if this really improves the relationship ？.

It seems expensive.
Please let me know if you know anything about it.

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  • Sean0914
  • 2023/08/06 (Sun) 03:48
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I have had the pleasure of working with Dr. Setsuko Yano a long time ago.

It depends on the person whether it is effective or not,
but well, it changed my viewpoint and I am glad in some ways.

I was also able to use HMSA's insurance.

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Valentine's - where to find a Japanese partner in Portland

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  • bluesamurai22
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  • 2023/02/11 19:07

Could anyone please advise on where to find single Japanese in their 20s and 30s in Portland?
Thank you in advance.

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Urayasu Citizens Only Wedding Plan

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  • ぱらぱら
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  • 2022/05/10 16:25

Sheraton ・ Grande ・ Tokyo Bay ・ Hotel is offering an exclusive plan for Urayasu residents ！
https://modules.marriott.com/wedding-fair/jp/tyosi-sheraton-grande-tokyo-bay-hotel

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Yui × Migration Online social event to connect new love

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  • 瞳
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  • 2021/11/11 11:03

There is going to be an online social event in Chino on December 4.
Looks like it's for Chino City residents up to about 40 years old.

https://s-kantan.jp/city-chino-nagano-u/offer/offerList_detail.action?tempSeq=15256

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this weekend

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  • chrisT22
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  • 2021/09/28 14:04

I live in the Bay Area. I am looking for a woman to meet this weekend. Please contact me if you are willing.

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男性方に筆問です。

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  • ...
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  • 2020/12/08 02:12

付き合ってる彼女が好きなのに浮気する理由はなんですか？

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  • 2020/12/14 (Mon) 11:50
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好きな女の乱れた姿を見れないから好きではない女としかできないと言っていた人がいました。

#71
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2020/12/14 (Mon) 15:00
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↑好きな女をモノにできない男の言い訳では。

#72
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2020/12/14 (Mon) 19:22
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↑ かわいそうなあんた、トホホ。

#73
  • 好きな女
  • 2020/12/14 (Mon) 21:38
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の気持ち悪い所見たくないとか？
可愛く乱れればいいけど。
変な声の奴いるよね。なんか気持ち悪い喘ぎ方。仕方無いんだけど萎える…

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  • ですね。
  • 2020/12/14 (Mon) 21:52
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可愛いのは全部演技です。

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