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• 友人寄り
• 2024/06/24 (Mon) 07:46
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I can't handle people who ask me to buy them luggage or souvenirs
I would feel sorry and couldn't ask them
By the way, even if they ask me for luggage
I decline because I travel with minimal luggage
I would accept an envelope-sized item
but towels are out
I don't feel it's urgent and I think I can bring it back when I go back to Japan

> I think the person should have said sorry, I can't fit it in my luggage, but what do you think?
I like honest friends

if you say that ？
if it's annoying, it's ok

but if you ask, I'll change my ways
I'll change my ways when you ask.

• 友人寄り
• 2024/06/24 (Mon) 08:15
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You were asking from America to Japan
Order online
Do your own thing

• ふざけた弁護士
• 2024/06/24 (Mon) 09:05
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It's the Netzte age, so as the person above says, order online.

• 価値観の違い
• 2024/06/24 (Mon) 10:36
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> My friend is coming to Japan from the U.S. and I asked him if he could buy two sets of towels ？
He said it was insane to ask for such things when they are so big.

I became a little uncomfortable.


hmm
I think it's insane, me too.
I think we're both uncomfortable. I think if we had a relationship where we could ask each other for favors like this, we would, but I guess that means we didn't.

• 価値観の違い
• 2024/06/24 (Mon) 16:04
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In Japan, some of my friends always bring souvenirs to gatherings, but basically we make a reservation at a restaurant, get together, have a good time, and then split the bill and go our separate ways.
I think they like to do that
I don't return it, but I bring it every time
When I visit my relatives' house, I bring something I can buy over there
Sweets and sake are better in Japan
There are so many kinds of things to choose from.

Everyone is so busy, but I think it's enough to meet old acquaintances on time ？
I think it's fine to bring souvenirs if you want

I think it's fine if you want to bring souvenirs
but I don't think you should bring anything in return I think it's fine if you want to bring souvenirs in return. I don't think it's right to ask for something in return
I know we have different sensibilities, but I don't want to be in a relationship
where I'm forced to do so.