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Vivinavi Los Angelesアメリカ向きじゃない?
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- 非社交人
- 2003/05/01 00:23
アメリカ人って、本当に集まってワイワイやったり、パーティーとか好きですよね。ぼくは、それが嫌で、呼ばれるとほとんど断ってます。でも、たまに断れないときは本当に憂鬱で前の日から眠れません。
日本人との会合さえ気が進まないのに、英語で、しかもあのノリにあわせなきゃいけないと思うと吐き気がしてきます。原因の一つは、英語です。いわゆる、日本人英語で、とてもコンプレックスです。
また、基本的に、社交的でなく、アパートの廊下なんかでも、できたらneighborとは顔を合わせたくないです。自分は、いわゆる、性格の悪いやつだとは思いません。でも、とっつきにくいタイプかも。
アメリカのおおらかさとか、のんびりしたところは、とても自分に会っていると思います。できれば永住したいと思っています。
アメリカ向きじゃないかな?同じ悩みを持った方、いませんか?
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- 俺もひょっとして
- 2003/05/01 (Thu) 00:38
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そうかもしんないなぁ〜。パーティーもあんまり好きじゃないし、四六時中他人と一緒にいるのは疲れるなぁ〜。だから非社交人さんの言ってるのはよくわかりますよ。
- #3
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俺もかも。アメリカにきて長いけど
パーティーとかやっぱだめです。基本てきにわいつも一人。性格わいいほうだと思うけど。人付き合いがへた。
アメリカすきだし永住するつもり。
俺も悩んでいるところです。
- #4
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- 422
- 2003/05/02 (Fri) 09:38
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アメリカ人にもパーティー嫌いな人いますよ。自分が行きたくもないパーティーには行かなくてもいいんじゃないでしょうか?どうしても行かなくてはいけない時は パーティーの中に自分と同じような人がいないかどうか探してみては?そういう人必ずいるものです。
言葉に関しては 特にLAに住んでいるアメリカ人などは 奇麗な英語を話す外国人なんていないと思っていますから比較的辛抱強く相手の話しを聞こうと努力してくれます。
それに 正しい奇麗な英語を話すアメリカ人も実はそんなにいませんよ。
自分の中にある垣根を取ってみてみましょう(^_^)/結構楽しめるかもしれませんよ。
- #5
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- 2.2
- 2003/05/02 (Fri) 12:13
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アメリカの人付き合いは自己主張からなっていますね、確かに。それがしんどいのだったらつらいですね。でも短時間の間でもすこし自分の意見を言ったりする努力はしたほうが少なくとも何か得るものはあるはずです。人の話を傍観して、時には横槍をいれるというのがやりやすい。日本英語になるのはもうそれはあなたの特徴になってしまってるんだから内容さえ相手にわかるように話せば関係ない。こっちの会話のペースはかなり速いけどとにかくやってみよう!
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