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Vivinavi Los Angeles高齢出産シングルマザーになる友人ーアドバイスお願いします
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- ohbaby
- 2013/04/15 16:25
長年親しく付き合っているアメリカ人女性が、この度めでたく妊娠しました。
彼女は40代後半という高齢でBFはいますがシングルです。
(受精卵をアダプトしたため、BFも彼女自身も血のつながりはありません)
長年望んでいた妊娠ですが、高齢でしかも双子だということが判明し、普段はたくましい友人もかなりフリークアウトしています。
私が子どもを産んだときも何かと力になってくれた友人なので、私もできるだけのことはしてあげたいと思っています。
しかしながら、働くことを少しも休もうとしない彼女は、子どもが生まれても仕事を続けるため、絶対に夜は眠る必要があると言い張ります。
新生児との生活で眠ることを期待するなんて無理、と何度もいいましたが・・・。
なので、昼間働いて夜眠るという生活を崩さない彼女のためにナニーを雇うことを検討していますが、彼女の希望を叶えるにはどのような勤務体制と給与を考えないといけないのでしょうか。
昼間のナニーはともかく夜間にナニーというのは聞いた事がなく、どこを探せばいいのか・・
子育てを何だと思ってるの!というお叱りもあるかと思います。
私も正直、根本的には彼女の感覚は理解できません。
私自身もフルタイムで働くママなので週末ぐらいしか手伝ってあげられないのですが、
その他でできることは出来る限りサポートしたいと思っています。
もしも忙しく働くママの方で、いろいろな子育てサポートの知恵がございましたら、ぜひ教えていただきたいです。とくに夜間に新生児の面倒をみてもらうということについて、どのような方法があるが教えていただけたら助かります。よろしくお願いします。
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産まれてくると、ご本人も考えなかった母性というものが芽生えてくるかもしれませんよ。
夜鳴きなど、夜中の大変さといっても、それぞれです。1ヶ月の我慢で済むこともあるしね。
会社で、育児休暇ってもらえないんですかね、そんなにいい会社だったら。
貯金も無いんですかね。
1.2ヶ月くらい、住み込みでも何でも本人が探すでしょう?
あなたは、本当のところ何を考えて投稿しているのかが、ちょっと疑問に思いましたが。
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care.comで探しました。たまたまかもしれませんが私は割と安くていいナニー達に恵まれましたよ。
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- UZA!
- 2013/04/24 (Wed) 01:05
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夜鳴き?夜泣き?どっち?
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子供一人でも夫婦揃っていても新生児の頃は大変です。
でも、5年たった今、どれだけ大変だったかは・・・忘れちゃいました。
子供にもよると思いますが、子育ての大変さって、一時的なものです。まあ、一難去ってまた一難、といった感じもありますが。
お世話をしてくれる方を見つけるのはお金に糸目をつけなければきっと見つかります。すべてはお友達のチョイスなので彼女に任せておけばいいと思います。
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