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Vivinavi Los Angelesシェルター的な何か・・・探しています
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- コマドリ
- 2016/12/12 09:28
こんにちは。DV問題のシェルターの存在はしっているのですが
精神的なDVも対象に入るのでしょうか。主人の女性がらみの無神経な行動で
精神的にまいってしまい、暫く別居をしたいのですが、こういったシェルターを
ご存知の方いらっしゃいましたら、アドバイスいただけますと幸いです。
専業主婦なので、長期のホテル滞在などは経済的に不可能なのです。
でもこれを機会に、自分の銀行口座と仕事を探してみようと思います。
- #2
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http://www.ltsc.org/index.php/ltsc-programs/social-services/hotlines
日系ホットラインなどで訪ねてみる方がもっと詳しく分かると思いますが、DVシェルターなどは税金や寄付金を使って被害者を助けている施設なので、専業主婦で別居を考えていますっていう次元の人用ではないと思います。
自分の銀行口座と仕事を探してみようとは?元々あった自分の口座が不明になった?じゃないですよね。私の知り合いは友達の所に3カ月くらい居候してその間に貯めたお金で独立してた後離婚をファイルしました。よく住み込みのベビーシッターとかありますよね。そういう方法もあるのでは?
- #5
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- もも
- 2016/12/12 (Mon) 22:24
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<<キーボードの不調で何度か途中で書き込みをしてしまいました。削除して再投稿します>>
アメリカは良かれ悪しかれ”建前”の国ですので、DVに関しては非常に厳しく取り締まります。
http://www.courts.ca.gov/selfhelp-domesticviolence.htm
上記サイトから、カリフォルニア州の定めるドメスティック・バイオレンスには
The domestic violence laws say “abuse” is:
Physically hurting or trying to hurt someone, intentionally or recklessly;
Sexual assault;
Making someone reasonably afraid that they or someone else are about to be seriously hurt
(like threats or promises to harm someone); OR
Behavior like harassing, stalking, threatening, or hitting someone;
disturbing someone’s peace; or destroying someone’s personal property.
とあります。つまりDVには肉体的な攻撃だけではなく、言葉による暴力やストーカー行為、
脅し、物的破壊等の非平和的行動も含まれます。
文面のみでは”女性がらみの無神経な行動”(浮気等?)の程度がわかりませんが、
まずは日記でもいいので精神的な嫌がらせを受けた時の状況をできるだけ細かく、感情を入れずに事実ベースで記録してください。
証拠として提出できるかは州によりますが、会話の録音も有効な場合があります。
生命に危険がある場合は911ですが、そうでない場合は州のDomestic Violence Centerに相談してみてください。
http://www.cdph.ca.gov/HealthInfo/injviosaf/Pages/ViolencePreventionResourceDirectory.aspx
1-800-799-7233
<<その他、Verbal Abuseを受けている場合に法廷で証明する方法>>
https://www.domesticshelters.org/domestic-violence-articles-information/how-to-prove-nonphysical-abuse-in-court#.WE-PVqIrJE4
>> The best way to protect yourself: writing or journaling as much as you possibly can.
There’s an app where you can download your text messages and keep them in a file.
Keep your messages brief and factual, and avoid emotion, whatever you do.
Emotion can’t be proved in court, but facts can.
Some states also allow you to record phone conversations, so you can record threats from your abuser.
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