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• 紅夜叉
• 2023/11/23 (Thu) 11:27
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It's miserable to live your life worrying about other people's pocketbooks.

• ベニスに死す
• 2023/11/23 (Thu) 17:56
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I wondered why Showa-era Otouta-san gave generous and expensive gifts
to young strangers, but now I understand: it's because they're LGBT.
Have a happy Thanksgiving and Christmas with your wonderful friends.

• ぼっち
• 2023/11/24 (Fri) 00:31
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I don't know if I'm pitiful for not having friends or if it's just me.
If I act like I don't need friends, inevitably my kids will be less active. It means that I am sorry for thinking that I could have originally had a fun playdate with another child.

I do not limit my children. They are still toddlers, so it's like the adults are getting together on their own and saying let's have a playdate. And I don't participate in that. Maybe I'm just getting by with it for now because the kids are not old enough to make commitments to each other.

> The bottom line is that you unintentionally send a message to your kids not to socialize. It can be your attitude or your genetics.

What do you mean by heredity ？ I'm kind of curious. I thought these things came from the environment.

> What you can do is promote openness in socializing to your children.

I would think it would be difficult to promote it when I don't actively socialize with people 😅 sorry for sulking.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2023/11/24 (Fri) 08:03
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＃ Why do Showa-era fathers generously give expensive gifts to young strangers
That's because, you know, they have to have their computers maintained.
Simple maintenance costs $20, and slightly more elaborate maintenance costs $40.
I always give a gift at the end of the year because I always get maintenance done for less money.

If I go to another maintenance shop, it's $80 plus the maintenance fee just to check
You can easily see which is more profitable.

• グレーターロサンゼルス
• 2023/11/24 (Fri) 12:26
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＞ It's easy to see which is more beneficial.

In the Showa period, Ototsuan also gave expensive gifts to botched mechanics. No one could understand Ototsan's explanation why he did that, but it was because he was LGBT. I was convinced. No need to be shy.