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Vivinavi Los Angeles夫の言葉の暴力が辛い
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- 匿名で...
- 2012/05/29 11:14
私は元々口数が少なく受動的なタイプなのですが、夫の言葉に長年傷ついてきたのが溜まって最近気がついたら死ぬことばかり考えています。アメリカ人の夫は良い人の面も持ち合わせているものの、自分にストレスがある時は私にイライラする様で、I hope you die soon ,stupid, idiot ,disgusting, You're worthless , You can't do anything right等ありとあらゆる言葉を理屈を込めてとしつこく私が崩れ落ちるまで続けます。もう長年の事なので本人は日常のボキャブラリーで子供の前や私の日本の家族が来ている時にも平気で私を怒鳴りつけます。旦那がうるさいのでこの十数年友人もつくっていません。すみませんここで自分の気持ちをだしてみたくなりました。話を聞いてくれてありがとうございました。
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ここにコメントをした方のように勇気をもって独立したかたがいるではないですか。 暴言を許している貴方も子供にとっては加害者とは思いません? 聞いてほしいだけでアドバイスなどはいらないのかもしれませんが、正直言って、誰も守ってくれない子供さんに同情します。 DVの被害者をレスキューする団体はいくらでもあります。将来は貴方しだいです。
- #13
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- HOSODA01
- 2012/05/31 (Thu) 00:16
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10年も耐えてきたのなら、生涯を共にするのかもしれません。ご主人の良い面もたくさん感じてらっしゃるようですし、このままの生活を続けるのが自然なのかもしれません。あなたが我慢することが、あなた自身への幸福につながっているなら死ぬまで夫婦として歩むのも良いかもしれません。
でも、あなたは正真正銘のDV下で生活していることを、もう一度知ってください。 死にたいと考えたり、友達を作らないというのは健康な生活ではありません。
子供たちは、罵るご主人を見て育ち、それが普通のことだと理解し、彼らが結婚してからDVが起こっても、異常を感じずに、あなたのように耐え続ける可能性があると思いませんか?
Marriage Counselingへ行くこと、ご主人に催眠療法を受けていただくことなどは可能でしょうか?
下記はあなたが何度も読んだことのある文章だと思いますが、
もう一度読んでみませんか?
We define domestic violence as a pattern of abusive behavior in any relationship that is used by one partner to gain or maintain power and control over another intimate partner. Domestic violence can be physical, sexual, emotional, economic, or psychological actions or threats of actions that influence another person. This includes any behaviors that intimidate, manipulate, humiliate, isolate, frighten, terrorize, coerce, threaten, blame, hurt, injure, or wound someone.
Psychological Abuse: Elements of psychological abuse include - but are not limited to - causing fear by intimidation; threatening physical harm to self, partner, children...
Domestic violence can happen to anyone regardless of race, age, sexual orientation, religion, or gender. Domestic violence affects people of all socioeconomic backgrounds and education levels. ...
Children, who grow up witnessing domestic violence, are among those seriously affected by this crime. Frequent exposure to violence in the home not only predisposes children to numerous social and physical problems, but also teaches them that violence is a normal way of life - therefore, increasing their risk of becoming society's next generation of victims and abusers.
DVの定義(Department of Justice より引用)
http://www.ovw.usdoj.gov/domviolence.htm
Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
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50セントの耳栓をお勧めしたいです。
安上がりで、後遺症もありません。
だんなの稼いでくるお金を楽しみにしながら、耳栓を頼りに、日々生活してみてください。
- #25
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だんなさんの良い面を見てあげられるやさしいところがあなたにあるんだったら、愚痴いうのやめて、美味しいご飯つくって、スマイルで話しかけてみたらどう?
そんなこともうやってますか?
あなたがたぶん、望んでいるのはわがままかな?
- #24
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アメリカ人の旦那がDVで、っていう相談、ほんと多いよねー
それでも飽きずに結婚する人がいるから不思議
いい加減気がつかないのかな
自分は大丈夫、とか思ってるのかな
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