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Vivinavi Los AngelesUnhappy children who inherited only the shortcomings of their parents.
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- カレー
- 2023/08/06 02:18
I wanted to post this because I wanted to ask you all to listen to the hard feelings I have been having for many years.
I would be happy to hear from anyone who has suffered through a similar situation as I have, and how they are trying to overcome it.
I am now in my 40's and worked for many years on both marriage and job hunting to move to LA, but ultimately my wish was not granted and I recently returned home.
I believe that the main reason why my life is not going well despite my best efforts is because
I inherited my mother's bad looks, which is rare in history, and my father's temperamental personality.
Being a woman and having poor looks is a fatal disadvantage.Her mother, who is in her 70s, is not good-looking, but she graduated from a top school and a first-class national university, is very intelligent, intellectually curious, and has a good way of doing everything, and has many friends with a likable personality. After giving birth, she became a housewife, but during her working years, she earned more money than her father. Because of this, she married her father, who is relatively wealthy, well-educated, and relatively good-looking. On the other hand, my father was smart and chose women based on the wavelength of conversation and their personalities, so he did not particularly care about their looks, but he is selfish, short-tempered, and quick-tempered. I am not as well-educated as my mother, and I don't feel the same yearning for a full-time housewife like my mother, and I don't like children either, so I longed for a single life in LA where I could be carefree. Since I was not good enough to get permanent residency on my own and did not have the good looks to get a man to marry me and support my permanent residency, I had to return home.
After returning home, I have found a full-time job, but it is almost a black company and does not seem to last.
I regret that I should have studied for more qualifications when I was young so that I could get a solid job.I am currently working on my studies, which I was not able to do when I was younger, and I am angry at my parents for not communicating the importance of getting a solid job when I was younger. Part of it is that my parents' generation did not place as much importance on women's financial independence, but all of their wishful thinking about me is off.
My appearance is not at a level that can be managed with petite plastic surgery.
Those who are not in my situation will not understand my situation.
I apologize for the length of this article, but I would be happy to hear from anyone who has overcome similar circumstances.This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
- #63
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- 昭和のおとっつぁん
- 2023/08/10 (Thu) 13:49
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I know you want to complain, but
let's live our lives with gratitude to our parents.This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
- #64
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- 昭和のおとっつぁん
- 2023/08/10 (Thu) 15:02
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Be thankful for your parents, whatever their past.
This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
- #65
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- おとっつぁま
- 2023/08/10 (Thu) 16:06
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Straightforward Otani's advice ----------
If you are only concerned about your appearance, borrow money from your parents and go to Korea
How about plastic surgery ? I think it will change you in a certain way.
I'll go to LYZAP for my body shape.
Advice from a Showa-era father ----------
Nearby leisure than far away leisure
Let's go back to that hometown - Let's go back
Don't write off the shame of travel
Be grateful to your parents, no matter what the past may have been.This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
- #67
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- 昭和のおとっつぁん
- 2023/08/10 (Thu) 16:31
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Yes, thanks to you, I say thank you to Japan every morning and evening.
Morning, good morning, may you live safely today
Evening, thank you for living safely today
Grandma and grandpa, please come back to this world soon with a new life.
I am the person I am today because my mother suffered and gave birth to me.This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
- #68
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- ゲゲゲ
- 2023/08/11 (Fri) 12:58
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Topi, paranoid.
This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
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