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I contracted an STD.

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#1
  • h
  • mail
  • 2022/03/12 21:43

Does anyone know a good doctor ?
By the way, the person I am seeing is married, so I am alone.
I found out that the other person is married when I found his wife's Instagram. I have been suffering for a long time without getting well.

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#22

That person is not the only such person.
This is just the tip of the iceberg. Is it really something for a good adult to make a fuss about how he or she has been exposed to such behavior by avoiding such a person? I think the person who attracted such a person also has a problem.

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#24

I wonder why they don't use condoms?

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#25
  • プレートランチ屋
  • 2022/03/18 (Fri) 21:14
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If he intentionally inserted himself without a condom with the intention of "transferring syphilis," then the man is no better than a criminal. If he wore a condom at first, but got excited and took it off halfway through and performed a raw penetration, the man is too low on the intelligence quotient. In any case, the man should take 100% responsibility.

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#26
  • ukuraina
  • 2022/03/20 (Sun) 16:27
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#22
Aa

I feel sorry for Sue.
If you have STDs and have a local boil, anyone would be distressed.

It's the one who attracted her. I think this woman has a pure heart. I think she lied about the guy being married, approached him saying she was single, and lured him to bed with her with good words.
I like you. I want to go out with you. If he comes on to you saying "I like you, I want to go out with you," it could happen to any girl who is not a pushover.

So it is not reasonable to blame Sue.
All Hawaii residents should think of measures to prevent such female victims from appearing in the future and discuss them here.

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#28
  • jfk
  • 2022/03/25 (Fri) 02:19
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The man who cheated on Mr. Topi h should go to jail.

And he doesn't have to come out for the rest of his life to be sorry and not repeat it.

If any lawyers are watching this, I would love to hear your opinion on whether it is worth suing or

getting arrested.

Please do.

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#29
  • 婦人科系は大事
  • mail
  • 2022/03/25 (Fri) 03:31
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He's a man who lies to get his hands on all kinds of women
An eye for an eye, and I think women looking at this site
should dare to approach him and raise him up and lower him down. Wouldn't your wife usually notice if you lived together or do you both play there?

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#30
  • 30代の日本人
  • 2022/03/25 (Fri) 11:56
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What I wonder here is that the culprit guy is married, but I wonder if he didn't have sex at home ? # As Mr. 29 wrote, if he had sex outside and contracted STDs, it would be easy for his wife to get it too, so I think his affair would be easily discovered. I wonder if he is married but living separately ? In any case, if he is not somehow stopped from picking up girls at random and having sex with them and spreading STDs, it will explode and spread to many Japanese people living in Hawaii. Someone, please stop this man.

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#38
  • 看護師
  • 2022/04/01 (Fri) 12:48
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# Dear 1h
How are your symptoms afterwards ? If it does not heal for a long time, it can leave marks on the skin and affect the brain and heart. It can also lead to infertility and miscarriage. There are other aftereffects and I am very worried. I hope you get well soon.

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#41
  • 婦人科系は大事
  • mail
  • 2022/04/02 (Sat) 20:47
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>>#h Mr.
"I'll pay you, but don't contact me again because your wife will find out."
That's too much, isn't it?
I bet he will do it again when his wife is pregnant or back home,
pretending to be single.
Please get your medical bills paid and get well.
Be careful, many Hawaiian men play around.

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#50
  • Ð
  • 2022/04/09 (Sat) 22:13
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How does this man's wife not know he's cheating on her ??

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#57
  • その後
  • 2022/04/22 (Fri) 01:43
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Mr. H. It's been over a month by now, so I hope you are getting better ? Above all else, please put your health first and live every day!

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#78
  • Marlocci
  • 2022/05/31 (Tue) 14:27
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In Hawaii, if you are diagnosed with an STD by a doctor, you will be summoned by the state Department of Health and Welfare and asked a lot of questions about how you were exposed to the disease. Most of them can be cured by taking antibiotics, so it is one of the ways to end the disease by yourself. As for the other side, there seems to be a lot of comments from other people.

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#82
  • グリーンカード
  • 2022/07/20 (Wed) 16:33
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He and his wife moved to the West Coast where they could surf. However, I heard that he was picking up girls again in Orange County, South Torrance, and Gardena without telling his wife
. First of all, I am glad that Hawaii is now safe!

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#83
  • fornia
  • 2022/07/27 (Wed) 22:30
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I have an idea who this other man might be, but he is famous among Japanese students in Hawaii for constantly picking up girls. If he is the same person, his wife is aware of the affair. If it is that person, his wife is aware of the affair, and there is nothing wrong with telling her. I also know other people who have contracted STDs. I hope the submitter is already cured.

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#88
  • nana
  • 2022/08/09 (Tue) 00:54
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Yes,
it is true that you have suffered a great deal.
But you are talking about yourself only as a victim.
Don't you feel sorry for the other wife at all? ?
Even if you didn't notice, it is still adultery.
He is an adulterer.
In Japan, you should be able to claim alimony at the time of such an act, even if you were unaware of it.
You should consider yourself lucky that you are not being sued.
You are saying that it is the other person's fault that you contracted an STD.
Do you understand that you take such a risk = when you engage in such an act with someone ?

and that it was done with your consent?
I think we are both responsible for our actions.

Of course what the man is doing is the worst, but
I think the biggest victim is not you
but your wife who did not sue you and
persisted.

I am a friend of his wife.
I don't know where they are living now,
what it has to do with you guys,
some of you are very detailed,
I am sure you know each other.
Sneaking around here is also the worst.

I didn't know she was married.
What you say is
nothing to her.

Someday when you have a significant other
you will understand.


It is assumed that a man who had an STD and
cheated on his wife by deceiving her that he was single is at fault, but
you are also at fault for having done it lightly, so
as a fellow woman, I would blame myself for having acted so carelessly. I would blame myself for doing such a careless act.

This may have already been said long ago, but
I apologize.

I hope she gets well.

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#89
  • nono
  • 2022/08/09 (Tue) 01:24
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#88
nana

your wife and her girlfriends
all women would be victims of the same.

I think the man is 100% at fault.

He cheated on his wife and all of them.

All the women victims should sue and put the man in jail.

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#92
  • #Hachi
  • 2022/08/09 (Tue) 10:50
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#88
nana


Well, don't get so excited. Take a deep breath and calm down first.




This man's wife writes that he "should be able to claim alimony"

against you, but he cannot.

Even if she did, her claim would be denied.



because when you meet a man, he says he is single.

If she knew he was married before they started dating, and they started seeing each other and continued to have sex
the woman is at fault and can claim alimony from the man's wife.


In this woman's case, she believed the man who kept saying he was single and continued to have sex with him
and she found out he was married, not from his mouth, but because she discovered his wife's Instagram.


The conclusion is that this woman is not bad at all.

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#94
  • 奥さんが1番悪い
  • 2022/08/10 (Wed) 13:25
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#88 nana

what are you saying ? the only victim is Mr. h.
The wife is also responsible for letting her stupid husband who cheats all the time go free.

Alimony cannot be claimed in Japan or here if you didn't know.

You have been patient ? Did your wife get an STD from her idiot husband ?
You can't satisfy him, so he cheats on you.
If you would rather divorce him than put up with it ?
If you say you are his friend too, give him some advice.
Tell him to get rid of the stupid, sloppy man.
If it were my husband, I would leave him as soon as possible and hide him, he's a disgrace, but his wife is a great person.

"What does it matter to you
where those people are living now?"
It does. ?
Don't you have any other friends? ?
If they get an STD, they will probably treat you coldly and say you deserved it.

"Someday, when you have a significant other
you will understand."
I'd like to meet a wife who would consider a scumbag who cheats on his wife all the time and treats her like property without apology even after she contracts an STD. People like you are the reason the world has gone crazy. Please have a decent way of thinking.

Mr. H,
please use a condom until you can trust your partner. It is mostly women who cry. I wish you a speedy and complete recovery from your emotional trauma.

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#96
  • h
  • 2022/08/10 (Wed) 21:02
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Your wife continues to give free love to a man who won't quit picking on and cheating on you no matter how many times you tell him to.

I think it's really great that she even moved out.

It's not easy to do. Men, if you don't quit picking on them and take care of your wives, you'll be punished.

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#99

I'm sure his wife knows and tacitly approves.
She's on such a small island and doesn't know
she's either not interested in her husband anymore,
or
she's the type that burns when there are other women around.

This topix is a victim.
But he has already moved on
I am sure he has already found a new love.
Why don't you stop rehashing the past around here ?.

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