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Vivinavi Los Angeles裏切り?
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- かやなな
- 2005/04/14 02:53
友達と今度ここに行こうねって前から約束していたのに別な子と一緒に行かれてしまったことってありませんか。 それとか一緒に何かを始めようと約束していたのに先に始められてたとか。なんか小学生の女の子みたいだけど、裏切られた気分でショックです。皆さんは、そういう嫌な気持ちを自分の中でどう処理してますか?
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- sonicshaker
- 2005/04/14 (Thu) 07:49
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約束も守れないような人間と付き合うのはやめましょう。あなたがなんで?と言えないならなおさらのこと。
自分ばかりいやな思いをして相手はそのことに気づかない、それで、そのうちまた似たようなことがおきる悪循環だと思いませんか?
友達でいたいのであればちゃんと言いたいことは言うべきですよ。かやななさんの場合であれば「約束したのに!」とはっきり言うことが大切だと思います。
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- fiesta
- 2005/04/14 (Thu) 08:06
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そういうことってたまにありますよ。
具体的に日にちとか時間の約束をしてたのにぶっちされて他の子と行かれたわけではないのですよね。
漠然とそういう話はしていたけど、たまたまその友達はチャンスやタイミングで行ったり始めたりしたのではないですか?
一言声かけてくれても・・という気持ちはわかりますが、その友達に悪気はないと思うのであなたが気にしすぎだと思いますよ。
裏切られたとは大げさじゃないかな。
あまり気にしすぎてたら態度にも出てしまうので、友達からもお誘いが来なくなる可能性もあると思います。
「なんだー、私も行きたかったのに。今度は誘ってね」ぐらいに明るく接したほうがいいですよ。
そして今度そういう話が出たら自分から積極的に日にちなどを提案してみたらどうでしょう?
けっこう「今度あそこに行こうね」などという話は実際相手がどこまで本気なのかわからなくて誘いにくかったりするものです。
一人より何人かのほうが楽しかったりすることもありますが、私は人と予定を合わせたりするのが面倒なほうで、思い立ったらすぐ実行したいタイプなので一人行動多いですよ。
そのほうが気も楽だし。
友達がいないわけではありません。(笑)
トピ主さんは一人で出掛けたりするのは苦手なほうですか?
もう少し自立したほうがいいかもしれませんね。
いつもくっ付いてるだけが友達じゃないですよ。
とても繊細な方なのだと思いますが、あまり気にし過ぎないように。
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