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• まぁまぁ
• 2023/01/28 (Sat) 16:52
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I don't think the Lord is wrong
full time job as a caregiver

your mind must be flying
all kinds of thoughts

take your time and talk about it with your parents
it's important!

• うむ
• 2023/01/28 (Sat) 17:49
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That is not good for the mother. Perhaps the dementia has started and she does not understand well. You might want to talk to a lawyer here to see if you can manage your mother's personal property. I hear that many bad guys are after the elderly people's money, so please be careful.

• おっさん
• 2023/01/28 (Sat) 18:44
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You want to get 150,000 yen a month as salary ？ from your parents ？ Wow!

• G
• 2023/01/28 (Sat) 19:07
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My mother doesn't want to be in a nursing home and she doesn't want to be in someone else's care.
That is where I have a problem.
My mother has never worked, but she rounds up a lot of money for me.
So I am thinking of getting my own 150,000 a month and paying for food and expenses from that.

In fact, my sister and I received some money as a living gift, but I have not touched it because I will use it for my own retirement.
My sister is married with children, but she is still begging for this 10 pension from my parents, so I think it is reasonable that she should get 150,000
since I will be taking care of my mother in the future. Otherwise, I don't need the money every month, so if you can put the house in my name
that's a different story.

Should I ask a financial planner or a lawyer about these things?

• 自分の老後
• 2023/01/28 (Sat) 21:18
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I want to die without bothering my kids.

• 優先
• 2023/01/28 (Sat) 21:22
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Mr. G, you are right. You should talk to your mother and ask her to give you the house or 150,000. If your mother doesn't give it some thought, she might ask for half of the money now that her sister has passed away.

• 恩返し
• 2023/01/28 (Sat) 21:30
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How many years, 20 years ？ ？ have you lived on your parents' money ？ before you entered the workforce?

• 優先
• 2023/01/28 (Sat) 23:03
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You talk so highly of yourself, but what are you doing ？
If you can't get a job because of nursing care, you will be lost in a rage if you don't have enough money to finish caring for them. Why do you live ？ welfare ？ parents should think about not bothering their children until the end. You can give them assets if they take care of you.
Mr. G says that his parents gave him a gift before his death, so his mother thinks it's a good idea ？ too.

• みーちゃん
• 2023/01/29 (Sun) 03:17
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> My mother received her inheritance from my father and has plenty of money. But she doesn't want to go into a nursing home.

In the end, I think ↑ is all that matters.
If your mother can afford it, have her go into a nursing home. If she is that dissatisfied, she can refuse care.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2023/01/29 (Sun) 07:12
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My mother received her inheritance from my father and has plenty of money, so she should hire a helper.

• イヤだな
• 2023/01/29 (Sun) 07:38
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When I read things like this, I really don't want to be a caregiver. Even my own parents are disgusted with me. I want to pass away without bothering my children.

• ？？
• 2023/01/29 (Sun) 08:35
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＞ My mother has never worked, yet she rounds up my mother and receives large sums of money from her.

I don't understand this sentence. Am I not reading comprehension?

• 大変だね
• 2023/01/29 (Sun) 09:15
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My sister is~ you know ？
Your sister must be to the point. I can't believe she's been getting money from your mother all these years, even though she's married. You are entitled to it since you are the one taking care of her. Why don't you talk to your ward office ？ I'm sure they can advise you.

• その通りだと思います
• 2023/01/29 (Sun) 11:44
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Yes.
You will lose money if you are stupid and honest.

You'll do better in life if you're to the point than if you're smart.

• ？？
• 2023/01/29 (Sun) 17:45
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I think he feels that because the second daughter is ripping off money like that, it has made him wary ？
Now he feels that the eldest daughter has come to him with money, money, money.
For the old man, he feels that money is the only thing he can count on.
Topy is also worried about his own old age.
If your mother can afford it, let her do what she wants,
and Topi can go back to work for her own retirement ？
one of you might break.

• ぽっくり
• 2023/01/29 (Sun) 20:37
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I'd like to go out on a limb at about 80.

• 人生80年
• 2023/01/29 (Sun) 21:02
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I eat bad food, eat poorly, smoke cigarettes, and drink deeply.
Living every day doing what you like and getting 80 pts.

No heart attack, no nursing care, no complaining old man whose body doesn't listen to him, no bedridden old man with little consciousness and only prolonging his life.
Euthanasia is a possibility.

• 肺がん肝臓がん
• 2023/01/29 (Sun) 23:10
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If you smoke and drink heavily, you'll have a very painful and agonizing last year, not a pockmarked one.

• 大変だね
• 2023/01/30 (Mon) 15:35
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Topi would like to save 100,000 yen for the future. But with her current part-time job, she can't do that. It won't cost you money for house and food, but you won't have any free money ？ You can't ask your parents to give you an allowance, so you'll have to ask them to give you money to take care of her. Since working full time has taken a toll on your body, you will have to get money for your current part time job and your mother's care. Since your mother doesn't want to go into a senior home, you have to pay her to come back from the U.S. to take care of you. Since she gave up her career in the U.S. to do what her mother wanted, I think she deserves to have the house and food paid for by her mother. I think it's great that he's not just counting on his mother's money, he's not playing with it, and he wants to work as much as he can.

• Peanut
• 2023/01/30 (Mon) 16:43
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Almond, why are you paying rent to your parents ？ Not if your parents are poor and they let you live there. If they hire a caregiver, they don't get rent even if they eat, sleep at night, and live there. Sometimes you get free because you live there, but not if you are a caregiver.
You are so weird.