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• Unicorn
• 2024/08/05 (Mon) 16:28
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I see that Lutheran Church also has a single session ！ I was just wondering if they have a preschool here too, as I saw a playground when I passed by there recently.
Thanks for the info ！

• Sasakama
• 2024/08/06 (Tue) 16:12
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I don't have any relatives over here that I can rely on, but I want to go out to work, and I am currently raising a 1 year and 8 month old.

Since February, I have been working part-time at a pub from Friday to Sunday, three times a week, with a nanny watching over me at night.
I pay the sitter $20 per hour, so I pay her half or more of my part-time work.
My husband is busy and comes home late at night, so I cannot watch him.
（ I am a one-person job every day, so even though the cost of a sitter is high, I think it is a great benefit
because it gives me a break and also my confidence when I go back to society after all. ）

From now on, I would like to leave my child at a pre-school and work full time during the day.
But I still think it will be difficult unless the company is very understanding.

I would like to get child care support when I start working full time, but
if I add my full time income to my husband's income,
I don't think I can get support.

We are a family of three and the gross income limit for support is
in the $5800 range.
It's not unusual to pay close to $2000 for a very old apartment to live in Hawaii ・ ・ ・ ・ ・ ・
（ We still live in a studio apartment, which is a little less expensive. apartment. ）

I was just wondering what everyone else is doing ・ ・ ・

Back to the subject, if your husband is at home at night,
how about a part-time job in a restaurant at night? ？
I was wondering if it would be a good idea to get a part-time job in a restaurant at night.
Also, I would appreciate any advice you might have for my post.
（ Negative ・ ・ ・ Please refrain from any slanderous comments. ）

• Unicorn
• 2024/08/07 (Wed) 01:51
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#10 Thank you for your comment ！
You are doing a very good job of doing your own research ！
I guess it's true that in a restaurant you can get tips ？
but the sitter fee is hourly ＄. 20? That's expensive.
I'm a little lucky in that my husband knows someone who rents an apartment for a little less, so I can keep the rent down and just work for my own pocket money, so I'm sure I can find something part-time, but I'm not sure what I would do during school holidays if it were full-time. But some of the other people who have commented that there are places that will take care of them on a one-time basis, and full time is more attractive because of the benefits such as sick leave.

• 子育て終了ママ
• 2024/08/07 (Wed) 14:07
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My children are now independent, but when they were young, I worked part-time for a major Japanese travel agency. Since the company had a large number of employees, many of those without children or those who had finished raising their children preferred to take weekdays off, and many of them avoided the high season when they temporarily returned to Japan, so it was easy for me to take time off to coincide with my children's vacation, even while raising my children.

I was able to find a preschool where I could leave my child for half a day or only a few times a week, instead of every day, and I was able to save money on preschool because I could leave my child there on my own time.

Once they start going to school, afterschool programs such as A-Plus allow you to leave your child with them directly after school until the evening. We also had them participate in child care programs during long breaks such as spring and winter break. If you do a search, you will find many different places that offer fun programs. However, only during winter vacation, most child care services are closed between Christmas and New Year's Day, so they cannot take care of children. I am glad that I was able to work even a little while my children were young so that I could increase the amount of pension I would receive in my old age.

• Unicorn
• 2024/08/08 (Thu) 02:04
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It certainly seems like a company with a lot of employees would have an easier time getting time off for vacations. Some people want weekdays off. ！
I know A Plus exists, but I am concerned because I have heard from someone with an elementary school child that there are not enough teachers for the number of people who want to be placed there and they are not in a position to accept all who wish to be there.
I see that there is also a child care program. Well, I think it will be a little while before we can find out that much more about the post-kindergarten thing, because I think the situation will change by then. There is also the possibility of another Corona-like situation coming. So it gets difficult during the New Year's holiday. In that case, I guess we would have to hire a sitter. But if your child is around 12 years old, you can leave the child at home and go to work.