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Divorce in Hawaii

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#1
  • MM
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  • 2022/07/11 09:21

We have been married for 12 years and have two children under 18.
My marriage has not been good for several years and I am now talking about divorcing my American husband. We have been to counseling but it has been difficult for us.
In Hawaii there are many divorces and affairs ・ and we are one of them ！

I am a stay-at-home mom so I am wondering if I should go back to Japan or stay here for my children. I am a housewife and I am wondering if I should go back to Japan or stay here for the sake of my children.
How long does it take to get a divorce? What should I do when I go back to Japan?
Can a single person live in Hawaii on salary and child support ？

Please give me some advice ！.

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#10
  • JJ
  • 2022/07/13 (Wed) 00:03
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MM-san

The level of education in Japan is high, so if your child is still in elementary school, it is not too late
and it is better to be educated in Japan.
If your child moves to the U.S. for college or in his/her 20s, English will come back to life.
One in two people are divorced nowadays.
There are not only divorced people, but also divorced people who are divorced. lol)))}
Life is Short Be happy rather than endure.

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#11
  • MM
  • 2022/07/13 (Wed) 00:54
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It will take a lot of horsepower until the divorce is finalized
but now is a good time to step up to the plate and do my best.
For the sake of my children and myself ！ ！ ！

Yes, there are some divorcees ！
who have a new life with a new partner. ！ In Hawaii, Jun HASEGAWA also ！

acts quickly towards a positive amicable divorce.

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#12

Does your husband give his consent for you to take the child back to Japan ？

It is very difficult to get 100% custody of the child, especially if you are divorcing an American. If you bring your child back to Japan without your husband's consent, it will be treated as kidnapping, so if you are taking your child back to Japan, it would be better to discuss it properly and put it in writing.

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#13
  • MM
  • 2022/07/14 (Thu) 23:00
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My husband has given his consent at one point. We have had several big fights in the past, so I think he assumed that I would take them back home. Divorce in the U.S. is complicated and time consuming, unlike in Japan. I have often wished that we could have a simple divorce between the parties as in Japan.

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#14
  • 私もバツ1
  • 2022/07/15 (Fri) 01:19
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A long time ago in my case,
both Legal Custody (Legal Custody)》 and Physical Custody (Parenting Custody)》 were 100% for me.

My ex-husband agreed to return to Japan as he cannot live with the children.

But the children have the right to see their father, and
returning to Japan became a dream.
In my case, the children were only allowed to see their father 16 hours a week
so I had to send them to Hawaii during summer and winter vacations. Since it would be a total of 3 months a year, sending them during summer and winter vacations is half the father's expense, but it is not easy.

Divorce takes more power than marriage.

Good luck with your children.

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