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Vivinavi Los Angeles恋愛恐怖症?
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- 前向きに
- 2003/10/07 00:57
私は長い間彼氏が居ません。もう、4年になります。というのも、まだ、昔に付き合っていた彼氏のことが忘れられません。(その彼とは1度別れた事があって、でも、その2年後にやりなおしました。15歳のときで、初めての人でした。)でも最近、気持ちを切り替えて探しているのですが、どーしても昔の彼氏に似た人を無意識に?探しているため、なかなか見つけることが出来ません。私の男の子のタイプは元彼だからです。いつも、元彼と比較してしまって、せっかく男の人と出会っても好きになることが出来ません。でも、こんな風に女々しく、いつまでも元彼のことを思って前に進めない自分にもとてもむかつくんです。もう、どうしたらいいのか自分でも分かりません。友達にも相談するのですが解決できません。いい人に出会って、いい感じになっても急に怖くなって、何故か、急に冷めてしまうのです。あと、自分から男の子に話しかけることもできません。経験が豊富な人(そういう経験があったけど、今は前に進んでいる人)にぜひ、アドバイスをもらいたいのですが・・・。よろしくお願いします。
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それはたぶんまだ、恋に恋しているのだと思います。無理に追い詰めて恋愛しようと考えないで、自然体でいるほうがいいですよ。急に冷めてしまうような恋だったら、多分その人はあなたにふさわしい人ではないのでしょう。恋愛感情って、自然にわきだしてくるものだから、自分で自分に恋愛を強制しないでね。きっと今はカレシよりもいい友達たくさんつくる、恋愛準備期間なんだよ。私も、昔仕事が忙しかったときに元カレと別れてそのあと5年間カレシいなかったよ〜。でもその間友達といろいろ楽しいこといっぱい経験できたから、今の自分があるんだって思う。
そういえば初恋の人が忘れられなかったことがあって、もう苦しくてどうしようもなくて、ずいぶん長くあっていなかったその人に、連絡取ったことがあった。会ってみたら、自分の物想いは勝手に自分が作り上げた想像の彼に対するものだったって気がついた。
トピ主さんがどんな事情で別れたのかはわからないけど、どうしても忘れられないなら、しばらくしてからあってみるといいよ。それで自分の気持ちとしっかり向き合って、彼に告白するか、別の人を見つけるか考えるといいよ。
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皆さん、色々とアドバイスをありがとうございました。もっと、自分を磨いて、いろいろな形で幸せを見つけたいと思っています。頑張ります。魔人Vさんのご意見もとっても参考になりました。いつも女の子の友達だけに相談をしていたので、少しは男の子の気持ちもわかりました。わたしもDryになれるようにがんばります!!
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- hang10
- 2003/10/09 (Thu) 14:46
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- SM男
- 2003/10/21 (Tue) 11:30
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