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Vivinavi Los Angelesできちゃった結婚
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- 恋文
- 2005/01/13 03:49
私にはお付き合いを始めて4年近くになる彼がいます。この4年の間、私たちは同棲し、互いを助け、本当にいい関係で今日まで来ています。結婚の話がでてからこの1年は私は日本とこちらを行き来する生活。両親には彼との結婚を反対され、切羽詰っている状態で、彼もそのことで時折、切なそうにしている姿が見受けられます。私自身、この生活が決していいものとは思っていなく、また幸せながらも時折、また日本へ帰国することを思うと、ため息をついてしまいます。そこで私は打開策として、できちゃった結婚をしようと思い、ただいま、計画中。
これってどうかな?
いま、同じことを考えてる人、
または現在、している人、
過去にその経験がある人、
いらっしゃいますか?
- #14
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- SM男
- 2005/01/15 (Sat) 14:19
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そんなにお互いを大切に思ってるんだったら、間に生まれた子供も幸せなはずだぞ。自分の子供に対する気持ちはうまれてくるまで想像付かないよ。本当にかわいくて大切なものだから自然と自分の気持ちも外野の気持ちも子供第一に変わっていくんだって。親なんて子供が生まれたらころっと態度変わるよ。子はかすがいなんだから。
ちゃんと仕事があって収入があるんだったら親のうわごとは無視してさっさと生んでやれ。恋文は多分普通の人間だからこの掲示板でひどい話ばかり読んでいる住人の尺度には当てはまらないと思う。
- #15
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- ゴロチャン
- 2005/01/15 (Sat) 16:37
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#14さん、親のうわごとって....そんな。
- #16
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- ふぁみぃ
- 2005/01/17 (Mon) 11:36
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計画的な裏のある妊娠はあとでぼろが出る!その素直な気持ちでがんばってください。
- #17
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- SM男
- 2005/01/17 (Mon) 19:34
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確かに、「生んでやれ!」は乱暴すぎるから、「結婚しちゃえ!」
そして、生むのはくれぐれも計画的に・・・がきを育てる大変さは半端じゃない・・・
- #18
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SM男さんありがとうです。
収入面についても私も彼も今の状態は安定しています。未来のことを話したら本当に終わりのないくらいたくさんの不安、心配もありますが、ふぁみぃさん、ごろちゃん、。、、、たくさんの皆さんの応援で今の自分の感じてる気持ちを大事にしますね。
ありがとうでいっぱいです。
また日本に帰りますが、これからも許しを得るまで時間を無駄にしないよう、生きていきます。
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