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Discrimination against children with disabilities

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#1
  • 悲しい
  • mail
  • 2021/02/03 19:04

I have a handicapped child attending a public school. As soon as I told the school in a meeting that I wanted a regular class, the school started harassing and discriminating against my child. At first I put up with it because I thought I had to get along with the teachers for my child's sake, but they harassed me every week, and finally they even used discriminatory language. I got so mad that I told the Superintendent everything, but all he said was "So what do you want?
If talking to Superintendent doesn't solve anything, can you tell me if there is another place I can talk to? I am stuck here alone because it is a technicality and I have no one to talk to.

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#2
  • 有礼
  • 2021/02/04 (Thu) 06:54
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Question.

Is your child's level of disability such that it is safe for him to be in a regular class ？

What kind of harassment from the school, discrimination against your child, and discriminatory terms ？

If you don't mind me asking, what is your opinion?

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#3
  • ん？
  • 2021/02/04 (Thu) 07:09
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Where talking ？ school still remote.

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#4
  • ダメですね
  • 2021/02/04 (Thu) 07:23
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That's impossible.

Let's gather evidence and fight it in court. It's a big problem. Perhaps you have been licked, or the other party is quite an idiot.

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#5
  • ダメですね
  • 2021/02/04 (Thu) 08:23
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By the way, are you in public school ？

I may be biased, but it is the lower income groups that have a lot of discrimination against disabled people, adoptive parents, etc. Wealthy people are more tolerant in that aspect, so I would recommend private school. If it is financially difficult, I think it is in the child's best interest to find an environment where he/she will not be prejudiced even if he/she has a disability. It is not easy to change a prejudiced person, and I am not exaggerating when I say it is impossible. It is not too much to say that it is not easy or impossible to change a prejudiced person. Rather than fighting against it, I think it would be better to broaden your horizons and get to know people in the same environment.

My personal view is that

a child with a disability is only an individuality. I think it is definitely better for the child to grow up in an environment where he or she can live more fully than to be forced to fight and live in a different field. Of course, there are many families who are not prejudiced against children with disabilities, so I think it is better to have a personal relationship with such families. However, I think parents know best which is best for their children because of their children's personalities.

It is easy to make complaints, but the most important thing is for the child to live a straight, strong, and kind life, and if I were a parent, I would avoid raising my child with prejudiced people.

Because disability is hard, but it is not misery. Prejudice is misery in my opinion.

I know it's hard, but please hang in there.

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#7
  • 教育者
  • 2021/02/04 (Thu) 11:36
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I'm an educator and many people say that more so than educators. They give preference to parents who give gifts. They give preferential treatment. They don't want to get in trouble. If something goes wrong, they are easily sued in the U.S.
It is best to have an environment where children can be relaxed, rather than in a regular classroom where they may be discriminated against further. Sometimes kids are too straight forward, don't understand, and are amused. Many adults do, too. Children with disabilities are pure and beautiful at heart. But I hope parents don't think they should be singled out because of their disabilities, and that they can stand on their own.

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#8
  • ホープ
  • 2021/02/04 (Thu) 12:19
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＞ As soon as I told the school at the meeting that I wanted a regular class, they started harassing and discriminating against my child

Keep a detailed diary of the date, time, and situation.
Then you can find a lawyer who specializes in suing schools and discuss how to fight it.

If a student with a disability is in a regular classroom, you are obligated to provide ） necessary assistance （ such as having an Assistant Teacher.
Harassment is outrageous, but may be a burden on the school's budget and the classroom teacher.

It is hard to say since we don't know the extent of your child's disability and age, but do you have any confirmation from a doctor that he/she can do well in a regular class with support ？
Is attending a regular class really the best option for your child? ？
Can we trust the school to harass him just because he wants to attend a regular class?
There are many other public schools.
I think transferring to a public school in an area with a larger budget might be an option.

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#9
  • ろくおん
  • 2021/02/04 (Thu) 13:14
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I will now record our conversation. Please allow me to do so. and then start the conversation. If it is a recording, the other party will respond accordingly. You might want to change the school because it seems to be at a low level. What kind of school is it to say such racist terms ？.

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#11
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2021/02/04 (Thu) 15:10
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I think fighting about these things just takes time and stress.
I think you can change your mind and find someone else.

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#14
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2021/02/04 (Thu) 18:07
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11 Then help us look elsewhere.

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#15
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2021/02/04 (Thu) 18:16
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You are trying to ruin the topic by getting involved again like that, Red Yasha's Showa Otchan.

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#17
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2021/02/04 (Thu) 19:21
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I think you could look elsewhere in 11. If you wrote
, it would also be a good idea to help others.

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#18
  • ところで
  • 2021/02/04 (Thu) 19:41
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Topi is busy ？.

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#19
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2021/02/04 (Thu) 19:46
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Helping people without being asked is called a nuisance.
He is still a pompous Showa ototsuan who can't read the air.

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#20

You might try contacting the following.
You may hear some good information.
https://www.jspacc.org/
info@jspacc.org

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#21
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2021/02/04 (Thu) 20:37
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If you've been here for over 10 years, you must have information.
I found a school like this. You should contact them. It's up to you to contact them or not.
You sound like a bakkyo if you can't even do a small kindness like this.

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#22
  • 有礼
  • 2021/02/05 (Fri) 00:09
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Topy, how about you, there are many opinions out there.

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#23
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2021/02/05 (Fri) 07:22
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If you post it on the exchange board,
the one that lives here will write in and complicate things, so
I recommend posting it on the information board.

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#24
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2021/02/05 (Fri) 07:49
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You're the one who's always making things complicated. Have you ever written anything useful, Red Yasha's Showa Otoutou?

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#25
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2021/02/05 (Fri) 08:37
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Please write these things down and make it complicated
so please take what little information you have on the information board.
If you receive a strange mail, we can delete it.

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#26
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2021/02/05 (Fri) 10:03
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As usual, it seems that a low-brained fake who cannot distinguish between "wa" and "ha" is writing.

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#27
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2021/02/05 (Fri) 10:52
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As usual, there seems to be a low-brow imposter writing who can't tell the difference between " fake " and " imposter ".

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#29
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2021/02/05 (Fri) 17:38
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Wrestling with someone else's loincloth is less than a thing. Afo.

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#30
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2021/02/05 (Fri) 18:14
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You are no more a fake than the shit on your loincloth.

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#31
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2021/02/05 (Fri) 19:42
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You're talking about yourself, afo.

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#32
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2021/02/05 (Fri) 19:49
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31
parroting the idiot as usual, aw.

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#33
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2021/02/05 (Fri) 20:04
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It's getting rougher and rougher.

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#34
  • 今日の
  • 2021/02/05 (Fri) 20:08
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33
You don't say here ？

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#36
  • 永遠に来ないもうじき
  • 2021/02/05 (Fri) 21:32
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Topi is a rude person.

I also wonder if the school really has a problem.

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#37
  • 本当
  • 2021/02/06 (Sat) 10:51
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She's just a selfish old woman who can cut it, and she has a disabled child, so she thinks she can get sympathy and get away with anything ？.

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#38
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2021/02/06 (Sat) 15:53
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Oops, I caught 30 fish before I knew it.　　Let's throw them away.

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#39
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2021/02/06 (Sat) 18:25
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boring as ever, do you have any advice for me, ah?

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#40
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2021/02/06 (Sat) 19:23
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39
You advise.

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#42
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2021/02/07 (Sun) 12:46
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If it's real, you could at least write down how the Showa Ototsuan, Beniyasha's name was created
.

But if it's a fake, he won't be able to write about it.

Showa-no-otsuan, I could write down how Kohyasha was created. But don't panic, I'll leave you a trump card.

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#43
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2021/02/07 (Sun) 20:07
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If it were real, it would be easy to write how the name Showa no Otoutsuan, Kouriyasha
came into being, but

copying and pasting is a sign that you can't write

I can write how Showa no Otoutsuan, Kouriyasha came to be. I might write
But don't panic, I'll leave you a trump card. l

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#44
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2021/02/08 (Mon) 07:24
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42
I can easily recognize the text I wrote
because it shows erasure, report, and time on the right side, but
I can easily recognize the text someone else wrote
because it shows only report and time on the right side, so I can easily recognize that someone is copying and pasting.

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