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Vivinavi Los AngelesＲｏｏｍメイト
- #1
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- えええ
- 2004/06/06 01:55
私は４ヶ月前に初めて知り合った人とルームメイトになったのですが、お互いまったく干渉せずでホントにアパートをシェアしているだけって毎日です。顔を合わせるのも週に何回かだし、会ってもしゃべりません。むしろお互いなるべく顔を合わせないようにしている感じです。
私は学生でルームメイトは年上の社会人の女性です。 これが私のはじめてのルームメートなのでこれでいいのか？と疑問があります。みなさんはルームメートとどのような関係をもってますか？
- #3
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社会人と住むと避けられないことかもしれませんね。社会に出ると普通はプライベートの時間が限られるので、自分の事に使いたくなるものです。ですから自然と相手にも負担をかけないよう物を共用したり時間を配分してしまいます。アメリカ人ですがルームメートもそうでした。
わいわいと色々シェアしたいなら学生同士が良いでしょう。友達も共有、ご飯も、悩みも、なんて事もあります。ある程度一線引いた関係が一番心地よかったように思います。
あなたに合った相手探し してみては？
- #2
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- mine
- 2004/06/07 (Mon) 03:08
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思い出しましたが、知人がルームを借りて、カーペットの匂いが臭くて、１ヶ月で引っ越しました。出て行く時、家主のお婆さんから「全然話さなかったね。もっと話してくれれば良かったのに」と言われたそうです。お婆さんは話し相手が欲しかったのかもしれませんが、知人はその気がまったく無く、ただ住み心地の良い安いルームが欲しかっただけのようです。知人は１ヶ月間匂いに我慢した反動か、高級アパートに引越して行ったようです。
シェアしているうちに、掃除当番をしないとか汚すとか色々と問題が浮上するそうですから、問題がなければお互いまったく干渉しないのは悪くないと思います。アパートをシェアするのが目的であって、初めて会った人と喋るのが目的ではないのなら、あまり喋らないのは自然かな。
- #4
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わざと顔をあわせないようにするっていうのは変かもしれないけど、食事も相談事も行動も全部あわせてるとかになると逆にプライバシーもなにもなくて生活しにくいっていうのは絶対いつか出てくると思います。仲のいい友達と暮らすより、ちょっと知り合い程度の人とＳｈａｒｅする方が私は気楽でいいと思います（＾＾）
ルームメイトならお互いのプライバシーも尊重しあいながらっていうのが一番でしょう。夜遅く友達連れきたりっていうのは相手にとっては迷惑かもしれない。。そういう一線をおいた関係の方が長く続くんじゃないかな？（＾＾）仲良くなりすぎちゃうのも困るよ♪
初めてのルームメイトがなにも問題なくやってける人で良かったって思わないと！！（＾＾）
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