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Vivinavi Los Angeles言葉のDV
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- TOTORI
- 2010/09/10 12:21
夫からの言葉の暴力で、一緒にいる事に限界を感じています。
アメリカで離婚の理由にするには、基準と言うものがあるのでしょうか?
子供の親権は取りたいので、ちょっとでも有利になるよう、準備の為いろいろ情報を頂きたいです。
お互いグリーンカード保持者なのですが、もしこじれて私が子供を連れて日本に帰った場合、日本で訴訟をすること等も可能なのでしょうか?
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- PuffyPurin
- 2010/09/10 (Fri) 12:42
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ご主人からの言葉の暴力って辛いですよね。でも残念ながら言葉だけの暴力ではアメリカではDVとはみなされにくいのが現実です。身体的な暴力で、そのせいで病院に行ったとかそういった履歴があれば、それが証拠になりますが、離婚裁判にはほぼ影響を与えることはできません。カリフォルニアはNon-Fault といって、どちらが悪いとか、離婚の理由などは関係なく、どちらか一方が離婚の手続きを開始すれば離婚のプロセスが始まります。離婚に同意は必要ありません。理由も必要ないのがここの法律です。また慰謝料も取れません。ただ、トピ主さんが無職で収入がない場合は、Supporsal-support (ある一定の期間のみ、生活費のサポートがもらえる)がもらえる可能性はあります。ただお母さんが無職の場合、親権がとり難い状況になるのも確かです。こちらで離婚の手続きを始めて、日本にお子さんを連れ帰った場合、違法になりますので気をつけてください。ご主人の了解を得ていれば大丈夫かもしれませんが、ご主人の了解を得ないで、ご主人が裁判所に訴えた場合には誘拐罪に問われる可能性が大になります。自分の子供でもそうなります。。。 納得いかないことが多いとは思いますが、これがこの国の法律なんです。日本からの訴訟は難しいと思います。国が違えば法律は違いますから。。。 お二人とも日本に帰国されて離婚するのが一番いいような気がしますが、無理なら、カウンセリングや第3者を交えてでも、ご主人と話し合いされてみてはいかがでしょうか?
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PuttyPurinさん、ありがとうございます。私自身今は専業主婦といった形で、日本では専門職として稼げる(今までもそうでした)ので親権が取りやすいのかな、とは思っていました。やはり日本で動き出した方がよさそうですね。大変参考になりました。
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- daniema
- 2010/09/10 (Fri) 18:48
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#2>お二人とも日本に帰国されて離婚するのが一番いいような気がしますが、
#3>やはり日本で動き出した方がよさそうですね。
人生の大事な問題を素人に相談して早々に「日本で動き出したほうがよさそう」って、専門家に相談するなり検索して調べるのもお忘れなく。親権が欲しいから日本でという気になったかもしれないが。
日本で両者が離婚に同意すれば簡単に離婚が成立するが、同意がなければ調停、不成立なら裁判とかなり長々と何年も続きアメリカ式より面倒になることも。相手次第だから。『もしこじれて』ということは、まだ同意は得ておらずこじれる可能性も否定できないのだろう。泥沼化すれば調停だけで3年かかることも。
日本で親権指定の調停の申立をするには、離婚の合意ができていることが前提。
別居中にスキをみて旦那が子供を連れ出すのはよくある話だが、まだ離婚が成立していないのでどうにもできず油断が出来ないのが日本。
こじれて上告したりして数年後、気がついたら美貌が衰えやつれ子供は成人近くになったなんてことも。長引くと弁護士費用も膨らむ。
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