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Vivinavi Los Angelesかなわぬ恋?
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- mayone
- 2010/11/24 22:24
お相手は、弁護士さんなのですが、
とても素敵な紳士で、親身になって話を聞いてもらいケアをしてもらっているうちにいわゆる恋心?のようなものが芽生えてきてしまいました。契約期間中は予約さえとれば事務所に行くのは無料なので、何かと用事を作っては足を運んでいるのですが、なかなか進展させられません・・・
依頼とは関係ない余談でいろいろと個人的な事を聞けば聞くほど「きたーーーーーっつ!!」と叫びたくなるような人なのです。学歴◎、仕事◎、容姿◎、性格ハナマル!!!でも、こんなトリプル7的な人がこの年(もうすぐ40歳?)独身という事は、もしやゲイなのか?と・・・考えすぎか・・・でも、直接聞くわけにもいかないし・・・
30半ばの世間でいう「賞味期限切れ?」、容姿普通、女子度普通よりやや下、性格はどちらかというと猫的で恋愛経験が乏しくどうしたらよいのか・・・完全に負け組みの私ですが、干支一回ぶりの恋で、今度こそ実らせたいんですが・・・かなわぬ恋でしょうか?
夢見る乙女時代はとっくに卒業しているので、辛口の本音コメントもWELCOMEです。
男女問わず、アドバイスお願いします!
- #55
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- たよと
- 2010/12/06 (Mon) 22:56
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トピ主さん。用も無いのにアポをとって弁護士に会ったり、頼みもしないのにランチを差し出そうとするのは、相手に迷惑がかかると思いませんか。
大人の女性なら気が付くはずですけどね。子供じゃないんだから。相手の事を考えないとダメでしょう。
トピ主本人は、恋をして気分がいいかもしれないが、愛の押し売りをされた側が特別の感情をもたれて迷惑なのは、よくある事。
逆にしつこくて嫌われる事もある。
しつこいと弁護士さんの仕事がやりづらくなる。
他の方々が、アタックしろとか、告白しろとか、頑張れとか言ってるけど30半ばで恋愛経験が少ないトピ主には、無理な話でしょう。
女の方から告るのは、いくらアメリカでも一般的じゃない。
どうしても忘れられないのならクリスマスカードに何か一言書いて連絡を待つのは、どうでしょうか。
もし連絡がなかったら素直に諦めるのが賢明。
- #57
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>用も無いのにアポをとって弁護士に会ったり、頼みもしないのにランチを差し出そうとするのは、相手に迷惑がかかると思いませんか。
弁護士も客商売だから契約が終わるまでは良い顧客だから意識していない。
お客様は神様です。この精神で弁護士は頑張っていると思われる。
- #56
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#55に同意。 一人で勝手に盛り上がって、愛の押し売りにならないように。 好みじゃない人にいくら迫られても迷惑なだけ。
- #59
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#58さん、それは法廷で弁護してもらってる場合でしょ?
事務所に相談行ってるだけでは関係無いと思いますよ。
でも資格なくなってもいいじゃん?!?
トピ主さんも大人なんだからその辺もふまえて責任とれるからアタックしようと思ってるんでしょ?
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