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Vivinavi Los Angeles帰国と彼氏
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- 花見
- 2003/02/18 11:19
もうすぐ学生生活を終え、日本に帰国します。就職は日本で探そうと思っているので。
ただ、今付き合っているアメリカ人の彼氏とはもう四年も一緒で、彼氏は私と一緒に日本に引っ越すと言い出しています。
私はまだ２３だし、就職もしたいので、結婚はまだ考えていません。
彼氏が日本に来てくれたら確かにとてもうれしいのですが、そんな簡単にいく事でもないだろうし、私のためにそこまでの苦労をしてもらうっていうのはやっぱり気がかりで・・・。
日本に行ったらお互い状況も環境も変わるし、今みたいに幸せな関係を続けていけるかどうか・・・。
でも彼氏と別れたくないんです。
将来結婚するならこの人だとも思っています。
とても矛盾してるのはわかっています。
どなたか同じような経験ある人いますか？
客観的な意見を聞かせてください。
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恋愛は、人に相談して決まるものとちゃうでぇ。自分が後悔せんように自分が決めるんや！自分と彼氏の問題や。ここで相談する時間があったらやなぁ、彼氏と相談する時間を作ったりや。
- #12
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私も花見さんと同じ状況です。 私たちの場合はとりあえず私が日本で就職して状況を落ち着かせてから将来のことは話し合うつもりです。 なんせ、私は働いたことがないから彼も日本で就職することは理解してくれてるし、人生恋愛も大切だけどやるべきことはやっておかないと．．．っというのが私たちの考え。 それで遠距離でもつきあっていけるならそのうち結婚するつもりです。
- #14
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みなさん真剣にアドバイスして下さって、ほんとにほんとにありがとうございます。
指摘されたように、日本に行ってからの変化が一番の不安です。
私は私で新生活に一生懸命になるでしょうし、絶対に今と同じようになるとは思えません。
私たちはこのことをもう何度も話し合っていますが、どうしても納得できる答えが見つからなくて。
やっぱりアネーゴさんやももこさんのように、一度離れて新しい生活を落ち着かせるほうがいいかもしれませんね。
彼が、離れて暮らすのを嫌がりますが、そこはやっぱり理解してもらうしかないですよね。
本当にたくさんのアドバイスありがとうございます。
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