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No matter how long it takes...

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#1
  • みさき
  • mail
  • 2022/12/07 18:45

I wonder if anyone else has the same problem... I thought I would start a topic.

I have been coming to the US for about 20 years.
I did not come here because I wanted to, but because of my partner's situation.
Everyone has different reasons for coming to the U.S., and they may have different reasons, such as study, work, pursuing a dream, etc.
I think it is more like a dream. I didn't come to the U.S. with a positive attitude, and I still suffer from stress and anxiety and think about Japan.
Since I have spent every day in such a negative way, my English has not improved because I keep running away from it, and I continue to have a strange feeling of discomfort, as if I have missed the opportunity to get used to a very normal daily life.

Is there anyone else in my situation?

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#30
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2022/12/09 (Fri) 06:54
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Marital problems need to be discussed and resolved between the two of you.

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#31
  • UCLA
  • 2022/12/09 (Fri) 07:33
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Some people make fun of waitresses, but I think it's a good experience for English ・ beginners in America.
I worked part-time when I was a student and it was fun to earn some extra money and practice my English.
I'm not sure about your current situation, but I think it would be a nice change of pace if you are home a lot.

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#32

You should go home now, not in your old age
why old age ？ enjoy the present while you are young instead of old age
you are a strange man

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#33
  • 紅夜叉
  • 2022/12/09 (Fri) 10:34
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If a couple discusses their problems with each other and solves their problems together.

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#34
  • まぁこ
  • 2022/12/09 (Fri) 11:09
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This isn't a topic about marital problems, is it? Various people are just taking it in that direction on their own. I think it's a little off.

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#37
  • なんなん
  • 2022/12/09 (Fri) 14:29
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The female brain needs empathy more than anything else. They don't expect you to solve their problems like the male brain does.

That's right, Topix.

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#38
  • みさき
  • 2022/12/09 (Fri) 14:30
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My posts have not been uploaded.
My apologies to those who responded.

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#39
  • 気にする
  • 2022/12/09 (Fri) 17:03
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There are a lot of things that a married couple can do.
They play the victim, tell you to get a divorce,
meddle in their problems, and give you all kinds of advice.
And then, when you get back together, they will make you look bad when you give them advice, like that person said that. You can do whatever you want with your life.

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#41
  • 比較的
  • 2022/12/10 (Sat) 13:59
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It's probably because people who are full-time housewives and have a lot of free time complain a lot, and have a lot of time to think about things. It's also the same with getting together in the neighborhood and gossiping about people. There are a lot of those in Japan too.
If you can't afford to have a hobby, work and be independent, and use the money for your hobby. It doesn't matter if you are in the Japanese-American society or the American society. Do something you love to do that you can devote yourself to ！.

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#42
  • 出来ちゃった
  • 2022/12/10 (Sat) 14:19
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I married a U.S. military man who came to Japan, and when my husband moved, I had no choice but to move to Guam, Hawaii, and San Diego
That's the pattern, isn't it?

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#43
  • もち
  • 2022/12/10 (Sat) 19:33
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Topix
You must be very serious
Most Japanese people
speak English in a very basic way.
The server of a Japanese restaurant
or
the person you are talking to is an American, etc.
Well, it is very common for people to be able to communicate ？
so
it might be
good to get out a bit for a change.

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#44
  • また心不全
  • 2022/12/10 (Sat) 19:35
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Marrying an American military man is a quick way to get married, they're often there, but they're almost never divorced first ？.

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#45
  • UZA
  • 2022/12/10 (Sat) 19:51
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In the past, it was said that those who married U.S. servicemen were war brides.

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#47
  • GC自慢って🤣
  • 2022/12/10 (Sat) 21:47
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I wonder if the person in 10 has some kind of complex ？ He is a moguri ？ Someone is bragging about GC ？ I don't think it is anything to brag about ？
There are still people who are beating 41 housewives. I think it's not only housewives who have time on their hands. I think you're not here because you're bored ？ lol

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#52
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2022/12/13 (Tue) 11:43
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＃ It's katakoto and appropriate.

If you live in a place where there are no Japanese, you have to go to local stores where Japanese is not spoken
You have to speak even bad English to live.

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#55
  • 受け取る側のコンプレックス
  • 2022/12/14 (Wed) 08:36
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47

You sound proud because you don't have a green card ？
You sound proud because you don't have money ？
You feel proud because you don't speak English ？

People with a strong need for approval will compete on their own ？
You don't have to compare every single thing ？
Everyone has their own good qualities.

I don't get involved with losers who have a strong need for approval because it's too much trouble

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#56
  • #55
  • 2022/12/14 (Wed) 22:16
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Well said ！ Exactly.
I think he was snickering because he didn't say anything.

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#57

On Facebook, there was a guy who got a green card after getting married who took a picture of his green card and bragged about it
If you got a green card because of your skills, you can brag about it, but only people who got married or won a lottery brag about it
For people who are not interested in green cards, it's nothing to be jealous of. ？ I don't think people who think they are jealous are jealous because they want a green card ？.

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#59
  • コバ
  • 2022/12/15 (Thu) 22:45
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I have a GC, but I am not proud of it at all.
If you don't have GC, you can go somewhere else, and I don't see the point of messing around with it at all.
I feel sorry for 55 and 56.

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#60
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん,
  • 2022/12/16 (Fri) 07:02
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I prefer to be in a position to become an American citizen and vote in American politics.

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