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Vivinavi Los Angeles黒人男性と付き合っていた女性
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- びび女子
- 2011/02/17 13:03
38歳バツイチの女です。去年、10年間結婚していたブラックの夫と別れてシングルになりました。26歳で知り合って結婚するまで、黒人とは付き合った事も無かったし、それまで付き合って来た男性は全て日本人の男性でした。自分では特別ブラックが好きと言う訳ではなく、人種を超えて人間的に惹かれるモノがあったので結婚しましたが、離婚してみて改めて人種や文化の違いが問題だったのかなと思っています。結婚していた10年間、旦那が黒人と言う事で、親戚をはじめ一般的な日本人の人達から色メガネで見られていたし、私も人が言う何気ない人種差別的な発言に怯え、怒りを覚え、ネガティブに世間を見る様になってしまった気がしてしまいます。
次にお付き合いする男性は、人種も文化も同じ日本人の男性がいいと思う様になり、惹かれる日本人男性が現れました。先日、その男性に前の夫がブラックだった事を告げると、かなりショックだったらしく、急によそよそしく振る舞う様になってしまいました。彼にはバツイチだと言う事は告げていたし、彼にも離婚歴があるのでそれを気にしているのでは無いと思います。やなり日本人男性にとって、ブラックと付き合っていた日本人女性って受け入れられなかったりするのでしょうか?それとも、これって私が人種差別的な事にセンシティブになり過ぎていて、被害妄想なのでしょうか?
もちろん、人それぞれでしょうし、私の人生をやり直せる訳では無いのですが、これってあまりオープンに言わない方が良い事なのでしょうか?黒人だからダメで、白人や他の人種なら気にならないのでしょうか?日本人男性の意見が聞きたくてココに投稿させて頂きました。
それと、同じように国際結婚されている女性の方からの意見もお聞かせください。色々と色メガネで見られる事が多いと思いますが、離婚後もその様な事ってあるのでしょうか?
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- 悩み改善4号
- 2011/09/03 (Sat) 00:04
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>>日本人の男性はアメリカの男性と比べたら臆病とか内気
それって、俺の経験と感じではまったく逆だけれどもね
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- 悩み改善4号
- 2011/09/03 (Sat) 00:06
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おっとごめん!!
内気に関しては日本人のほうがはるかに上である
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訳って言うのは絶対って言うのは無いので、仕方ないですが。。。
You do feel that some people don't like that fact that we are together. このピリオドで終わり。My family didn't.と始まっていると思いましたが、続いてたのかもしれませんね。
あと、 intimidatedって、mopaさんはどう訳します?怖気づく、怖がるよりも優しいのが臆病かな?と思ってるのですが。
Japanese men can get intimidated.もI do think と強調されて居るのですけど。
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- mopa
- 2011/09/04 (Sun) 16:39
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>You do feel that some people don't like that fact that we are together. このピリオドで終わり。My family didn't.と始まっていると思いましたが、続いてたのかもしれませんね。
ピリオドで終わってんだよ。 続いてるって、どーゆー意味? たとえば Most Americans believe in God. I don't. って言った場合、文法的には独立した文が2つあるとしか解釈できねーぜ。
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- mopa
- 2011/09/04 (Sun) 16:42
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>I do think と強調されて居るのですけど。
強調多用しすぎで、すでに強調の効果失ってんじゃん。
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