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Vivinavi Los Angeles子供と好きな人
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- 悩んでいます
- 2004/04/28 03:10
初の書き込みなので宜しくお願いいたします。
以前も「不倫」などに関するトピはあったと思います。ので、繰り返しのトピックでしたら申し訳ありません。
私、生まれて初めて本当に人を好きになってしまいました。問題はご察知のとおり彼が妻子持ち、という事です。この付き合いはもう数年続いているのですが、最近決断を下さざるを得ないような追い討ちをかけられています。
早く話をまとめると、彼はあまり家庭を顧みず、好き勝手に生活をしていたので家族に大きく悪い影響を与えていたようです。これには気づかなかったのですが最近気づきました。奥さんとは夫婦生活もなく、喧嘩ばかり。でもお子さんのことを心底愛してらっしゃるようです。
私は彼以外は見えません。彼との未来でなければ怖いほど嫌と思っちゃいます。今まで人並みに恋愛を重ねてきましたがここまで人を愛したことはありません。それは、尊敬できる彼にめぐり合えたことがなかったから、と確信しています。
彼も同じような気持ちをいただいていると言ってくれます。私と再婚したい、と。但しお子さんがいるので少し厳しい。今後、どうなるかは分からないけど、とにかく家族を建て直し頑張らないと、と言っています。
私は非常につらいです。生きる意欲すら奪われました。でもお互い連絡取り合うことが止められません。
お子さんがいらっしゃる家庭をお持ちの方。配偶者の方との関係は永遠と修復できない、と言うのが分かっていても、喧嘩ばかりの毎日でも、それでもやはり愛する子供のためにその家庭を大事にしないと、と思うものなのでしょうか?
ご意見教えてください。
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- SM男
- 2004/04/28 (Wed) 12:20
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修復できないのが明白なんだったら、新しい家庭を作ったほうが子供にとっていいんじゃないかな?修復可能か不可能かは人によって大きく変わると思うが。
反対に、彼とじゃないとだめだ、という思いこみも時間がたてば消えてしまうよ。
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