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Vivinavi Los Angeles
Adultery More Common After Pandemic?（1kview/2res）		 Relationship / Friendship 2025/04/10 08:05
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Vivinavi Las Vegas
firend（946view/0res）		 Relationship / Friendship 2024/09/29 12:08
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Vivinavi Hawaii
For girls who are in the process of getting marrie...（13kview/31res）		 Relationship / Friendship 2023/11/23 11:46
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Vivinavi Hawaii
Couple Counseling（2kview/1res）		 Relationship / Friendship 2023/08/06 03:48
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Vivinavi Portland
Valentine's - where to find a Japanese partne...（1kview/0res）		 Relationship / Friendship 2023/02/11 19:08
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Vivinavi Urayasu
Urayasu Citizens Only Wedding Plan（1kview/0res）		 Relationship / Friendship 2022/05/10 16:25
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Vivinavi Nagano
Yui × Migration Online social event to connect new...（550view/0res）		 Relationship / Friendship 2021/11/11 11:03
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Vivinavi San Francisco
this weekend（1kview/0res）		 Relationship / Friendship 2021/09/28 14:04
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Vivinavi Los Angeles
男性方に筆問です。（48kview/73res）		 Relationship / Friendship 2020/12/14 21:52
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Vivinavi Hawaii
国際結婚、旦那のパワハラ（17kview/28res）		 Relationship / Friendship 2020/12/01 22:01
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Vivinavi Los Angeles
Adultery More Common After Pandemic?

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  • Yutaka_zo
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  • 2025/03/05 17:48

Do you think more people have engage in adultery more afte the pandemic since people were home more often?

Not gonna lie. Not really happy in my marriage but can’t divorce my wife. Is there a lot of Japanese married women that engage in adultery? How and where do they look if I would assume most work from home or take care of the home?

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  • 2025/03/06 (Thu) 18:40
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It's been quite a while since the pandemic.
There's been a temporary increase in working from home, but not nearly back to where it was before the pandemic ？

And I don't understand how it makes sense that if people stay home more often, there will be more infidelity.

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Vivinavi Las Vegas
firend

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  • t&f
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  • 2024/09/29 12:08

I am currently working in a Japanese restaurant
I can't make friends of my age.
I don't speak English, but I can't make friends my own age.
How do you find friends?
I've been told that I should be proactive and talk to them.

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Vivinavi Hawaii
For girls who are in the process of getting married

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  • Allure
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  • 2023/10/01 13:47

I am a woman living in Hawaii.

I heard from a male friend of mine who is engaged to be married.

He said that girls who are Japanese tourists and are engaged to be married don't know too much about the high cost of living in Hawaii.

You shouldn't say you want to get married, move to Hawaii and become a housewife.

No matter how beautiful you are, how healthy you are, how good your character is, marriage is a life.

Most couples living in Hawaii work together. Even the wives of doctors.

The cost of living is 2-3 times that of Japan. Japan is the only developed country where prices and incomes have remained almost the same for decades. Hawaii is America, so men and women are equal. It is not uncommon to find couples where the wife earns more than the husband.

If you want to have children, you should earn your own money as well as your husband's.

If your husband has already paid off the mortgage, that's still fine, but if you both buy the house and pay for it together, you can pay it off faster and have more credit in your own history in the future.

If the husband dies first, the wife won't even get a survivor's pension until she is in her 60s.

Too few companies will hire a Japanese woman in her 60s who has never worked in Hawaii at all.

Start working in your 20s, 30s, and 40s to gain experience. I used to be a tourist living in Japan, so I would be very happy if I could be of help.

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  • 2023/10/30 (Mon) 14:18
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#27 P

So you get married, regret it, and get divorced.

You finally meet a man who makes the same or more money than you and remarry. Japanese women.

If you live in Hawaii, there are many Hawaii men looking for Japanese women. Regardless of nationality.

Japanese women are popular not only with Asian, Middle Eastern, and mixed, but also with white and black men, so good luck Japanese men ！ ！.

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#29

Are white men still popular these days ？
I don't think so in Hawaii.
I feel that there are surprisingly many people who remarry Japanese after divorcing white men.

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  • 2023/11/19 (Sun) 20:14
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＃ 29 Ichi-san

I guess it's a matter of fate and preference.

Some people have a Japanese husband the first time in Japan and a white husband the second time in Hawaii, and a black husband.

Some people are also white the second time and black the second time.

I have never met a Japanese man living in Hawaii whose wife is not Japanese （ White Black Asian other ）.

I still wonder if many Japanese men are looking for Japanese women.

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#31
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  • 2023/11/20 (Mon) 00:55
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Yes, I agree.
Japanese women have married and remarried to people of various races, not only Caucasians.

Japanese men have only met Japanese women who are wives.
If there are any men here in Vivinavi who have wives of non-Japanese race
I would be happy to hear various opinions.

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#32

Dear Second and Two

Thank you for your reply. I learned a lot.
It is a marriage, isn't it?

But have you married or remarried a white or black man
and has it lasted ？ long?

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Vivinavi Hawaii
Couple Counseling

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  • Kanikani22
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  • 2023/08/06 03:28

I'm sorry, I just wanted to post this to see if anyone knows anything about this.

If anyone has been to couples counseling, I would like to know the good and the bad ？

I had to quit my job, and now that I quit, I spend more time with my husband, and I am very stressed and worried. We both don't want a divorce.　He is usually a good person when he is in a good mood, as well as in terms of finances in his old age.


Maybe it's his age, but ？ he talks more intimidatingly than before.
When I point it out, he says I'm wrong, and when I start recording him, he takes on a kinder tone.
He is not fair. ！ In front of a third party, he is a quiet husband.

I see couples counseling in movies, so I wonder if this really improves the relationship ？.

It seems expensive.
Please let me know if you know anything about it.

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  • Sean0914
  • 2023/08/06 (Sun) 03:48
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I have had the pleasure of working with Dr. Setsuko Yano a long time ago.

It depends on the person whether it is effective or not,
but well, it changed my viewpoint and I am glad in some ways.

I was also able to use HMSA's insurance.

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Vivinavi Portland
Valentine's - where to find a Japanese partner in Portland

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  • bluesamurai22
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  • 2023/02/11 19:07

Could anyone please advise on where to find single Japanese in their 20s and 30s in Portland?
Thank you in advance.

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Vivinavi Urayasu
Urayasu Citizens Only Wedding Plan

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  • ぱらぱら
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  • 2022/05/10 16:25

Sheraton ・ Grande ・ Tokyo Bay ・ Hotel is offering an exclusive plan for Urayasu residents ！
https://modules.marriott.com/wedding-fair/jp/tyosi-sheraton-grande-tokyo-bay-hotel

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Yui × Migration Online social event to connect new love

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  • 瞳
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  • 2021/11/11 11:03

There is going to be an online social event in Chino on December 4.
Looks like it's for Chino City residents up to about 40 years old.

https://s-kantan.jp/city-chino-nagano-u/offer/offerList_detail.action?tempSeq=15256

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this weekend

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  • chrisT22
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  • 2021/09/28 14:04

I live in the Bay Area. I am looking for a woman to meet this weekend. Please contact me if you are willing.

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男性方に筆問です。

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  • ...
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  • 2020/12/08 02:12

付き合ってる彼女が好きなのに浮気する理由はなんですか？

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  • 2020/12/14 (Mon) 11:50
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好きな女の乱れた姿を見れないから好きではない女としかできないと言っていた人がいました。

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  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2020/12/14 (Mon) 15:00
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↑好きな女をモノにできない男の言い訳では。

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  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2020/12/14 (Mon) 19:22
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↑ かわいそうなあんた、トホホ。

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  • 好きな女
  • 2020/12/14 (Mon) 21:38
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の気持ち悪い所見たくないとか？
可愛く乱れればいいけど。
変な声の奴いるよね。なんか気持ち悪い喘ぎ方。仕方無いんだけど萎える…

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  • 2020/12/14 (Mon) 21:52
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可愛いのは全部演技です。

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Vivinavi Hawaii
国際結婚、旦那のパワハラ

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#1
  • Love
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  • 2020/11/14 09:01

国際結婚をしたばかりですが、コロナでまだソーシャルセキュリティナンバーが届かず仕事が出来ません。そして、引越してから5ヶ月ぐらい持病があり身体が本調子ではない状況でした。日本の仕事を全て辞めてハワイに来ました。48年間独身だったので結婚というものへの価値観がかなり偏っているのは事実です。

旦那から
「お前がハワイに来たくて来たんだろ」
「日本に帰れ」
「家賃、生活費は俺が払ってるんだ。お前はなにもしてないだろ」
「体調が悪いのは言い訳だ」

などを喧嘩の度によく言われます。これはアメリカでは普通ですか？
もしどなたかおススメのカウンセラーをご存知でしたら教えてください。

#21

結婚して日もまだ浅いうちからこんな事を言える男は延々続きますよ。貴女はカウンセリングを受けながら今後もモラハラやパワハラに耐えられると思いますか？
48にして日本に今までのキャリアも全て捨ててハワイに来た意味は有りますか？こんな心の狭い男と一緒に過ごすぐらいなら一人でいた方がよっぽど自由では有りませんか？よく考えてみて下さい。
私も専業主婦で旦那はアメリカ人ですがこんな事は言いませんよ。
って言うか言われたらさっさと離婚しますね。理解を得られない様な人間と生活を共にするぐらい苦痛な事は無いですから。

#23
  • 罪と専業主婦
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  • 2020/11/29 (Sun) 09:55
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物価の高いハワイで専業主婦だけしていてなんにも文句言われないなんて
とっても幸せですね。（ちょっと皮肉）
こういうひどいことを口にはしないとしても思っている人は多そうですよね。
家にいるだけでお前は何もしていないだろう的な。
コロナでみんなストレスたまっているから特にね。
離婚するかしないかはこの人が決めることですよね。

#24
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  • 2020/11/29 (Sun) 12:15
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＃１LOVEさん

LOVEさんはどのようにして旦那様と出会いましたか？

日本から引越して来たということは、ネットかお見合いでしょうか？

ハワイの物価高等のリサーチをしないで引越して来たのなら、旦那さんのパワハラだけでなく色々失望したでしょう。

旦那さんも同い年だとしたら、定年まで約15－20年。48歳でまだ賃貸でしたら、老後破産ですよ。

ハワイでリタイア夫婦と知り合って、賃貸の人に出会った事がありません。息子さんがご両親の賃貸を払ってあげている方には

出会った事があります。

賃貸と年金が同額なら、生活出来ないでしょう。よっぽどの預貯金がない限り。

リタイアする年齢で、住宅ローンが終えていたら、年金で生活出来ると思います。

そのような旦那さんと一緒に家を買いたくないと思ったら、別れたほうがいいと思います。

離婚して、自立して、日本人女性１人で家を買う人も少なくありません。

稼ぐ自信があったら、ハワイで頑張って欲しいし。そうでないなら、日本帰国したほうがいいでしょう。

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  • 2020/11/29 (Sun) 13:08
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#25 元風俗嬢さん

あなたが活躍稼げるようにハワイの法律を変えるように申請して下さい。
ご存知かと思いますが、先日ハワイで31歳の日系人レイプ犯が50万ドルを払って釈放されました。

被害に遭った40代の女性は重症です。
私達女性の敵です。ハワイの治安が悪化しています。
風俗が合法化されれば、レイプも減るでしょう。

日本人女性はナンパされやすいし、犯人は出会い系サイトに登録しているかもしれないので
本当に気を付けましょう。

#28
  • 罪と罰
  • 2020/11/30 (Mon) 12:20
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縁あって結婚した新婚のカップルに離婚した方が良いなんて書いて後日、読み直して反省してます。
よく納得いくまで外の景色でも見ながら冷静に話し合われたら良いと思います。旦那さんも色々なストレスから奥さんにしか当たりどころが無いのだと思います。
Loveさんも心の声を発して行く内に楽になって行くのでは無いでしょうか。こんなに沢山の人が質問にアドバイスをしてるのですから1人じゃ無いです。Loveさんは大丈夫ですよ。

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