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Recovering from a broken heart caused by cheating

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#1
  • ami
  • mail
  • 2022/07/13 12:30

A year ago, a man I had been long-distance with for 5 years dumped me
saying he had found someone he liked.

After that, I was shocked and dragged it out for about 6 months, but
I managed to recover and live a normal life now.
The other day I received an e-mail from that person after a long time
I am really sorry. I finally realized how much you mean to me.
I'm sorry to be so selfish, but can we try again?

This was the content.

I told him that I didn't hate him anymore and that I needed to think about it a little.
I am also worried that once I am in a relationship with a man that I like, it will be the same in the future.

If anyone has had a similar experience
should I get back together or not please advise me.

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#2
  • なごみ
  • 2022/07/13 (Wed) 13:15
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You wrote honestly

> I am also worried that the same thing may happen in the future as this is a man who once liked someone else while we were in a relationship. I think I should make sure to tell him

part of the story.

However, you said you were long distance for 5 years, how many times did you see each other during that time?
Seeing each other face-to-face is not the only way to fall in love, but not seeing each other can damage your relationship little by little.

You can also assume that the reason he is offering to get back together is because he is no longer getting along with the person he fell in love with.
Whether or not a reconciliation is good or bad is a case-by-case basis, so again, ask yourself.
If you think "I myself want to get back together ！" instead of being swept away, then I think there is a chance for you to get back together.

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#3
  • ん？
  • 2022/07/13 (Wed) 15:56
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The guy didn't write in before ？

saying he met someone with the right type of face and dumped her, but he was sick and tired of his new girlfriend being arrogant and not paying him at all.

But hey, it's common for men to want to get back together.
I would say no.

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#5
  • ないな
  • 2022/07/13 (Wed) 23:02
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Men contact ex-girlfriends because they're the easiest to drop

They think the woman they dumped will always love them.

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#7
  • それ
  • 2022/07/14 (Thu) 06:58
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I just want to do it.

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#9
  • それ
  • 2022/07/14 (Thu) 08:11
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↑ A woman who never leaves you no matter what is convenient

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