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Briefly on Parenting

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#1
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  • 2023/02/05 09:55

I started this site so that I could share my problems here, such as the stress of just having kids, the advice and judgments from senior moms and others who just want to mount me, the difference in values with my husband, and my worries.

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#5
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  • 2023/02/05 (Sun) 20:44
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There are people everywhere who mount up. But I try to be careful because I think I may be thought of in the same way.

I'm careful about how I say things because I don't want the other person to think I'm giving them advice even though I didn't mean to.

There are people everywhere who think what people say is nosy or annoying, so I think it's the same.

By the way, I try to reply to any advice with "I see ！ thank you ！". But I decide who I will practice it as advice, like I will listen to Mr. A's advice carefully, but I will go through Mr. B's advice with my heart.

I keep my distance from people who talk about everything.

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#6
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  • 2023/02/05 (Sun) 21:36
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My mom, who was a resident and knew me from the original, gave me detailed instructions, even down to the vegetables. And if you forget and accidentally buy them, the rest is hard. They don't listen to people, they are not friendly, and they go around telling their mommy friends. I don't care about vegetables ！ I told her I wouldn't let her eat sweets, but if she's giving them to me, it's okay to give them to her once a month.
And then she leaves you out of the group. Insidious, the hierarchical relationship in the housewife's community is like that. It's annoying.

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#7
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  • 2023/02/06 (Mon) 20:26
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They ask me how my child is ？ and when I answer, they give me advice on this and that, but I know so many people that it is tiring to listen to them because they all say different things, and it is even more tedious when they later ask me if I have tried ？ them. Now when people ask me how my kids are ？, I tell them they are smart and helpful. Like they're so cute. I decided not to tell them because if I complained they would attack me already. LOL!

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#8
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  • 2023/02/06 (Mon) 21:03
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↑ ↑ ↑ too incoherent to understand 😅 someone translate ！

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#9
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  • 2023/02/06 (Mon) 21:13
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person 6, you must have trouble with Japanese
I don't understand much either, but I somehow deciphered about 60% of what you wanted to say.

I don't know what it means that you gave me the details down to the vegetables, though the misspellings are terrible.

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