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• Crawfish
• 2021/11/12 (Fri) 17:48
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Mr. Wise

I thought it would be better to ask the person you mentioned rather than googling him, so I could understand the intent of his question and avoid any gaps in the conversation.
Is there any reason why you are not answering my question ？

I see. I have never been in a situation in another state where I had to go out with a few Japanese people.
I never tried to connect with them because I wanted to speak Japanese.
But the friends I made there I still keep in touch with even when we are apart, and I consider them true friends.

So Hawaii is just like Japan.
I thought Hawaii and Japan were different.
Is this what you call beating Hawaii? ？
I don't understand why Japanese people are taken advantage of because they are rare.

Please take care of yourself. but what? ？
But can you answer my question again?

• ワイズ
• 2021/11/12 (Fri) 17:57
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Poor thing, she just wants to be bothered, doesn't she?
Really, please take care of yourself.

• Crawfish
• 2021/11/12 (Fri) 18:09
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Mr. Wise

What are you taking care of ？
Sorry, I don't understand.

• ロコモコ
• 2021/11/12 (Fri) 18:56
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？ "I'm sorry" is correct.

Crawfish, do you realize that you wrote incoherently ？
You wrote that you were depressed, so Mr. Wise wrote, "Please take care of yourself." I think that's why Mr. Wise wrote "Take care of yourself".

I also feel that you are full of excuses when I read your writing.
Instead of talking to someone about your problems,

＞ I don't know because I don't eat out or go out much
There are many good restaurants in Hawaii.

＞ I don't know anyone who speaks Japanese in Hawaii
It's easy to make Japanese acquaintances.

This just makes me complain that I hate Hawaii.
I don't feel like talking about my problems.

＞ I haven't talked this much in Japanese in a long time.
If you have friends in other states, why don't you just ZOOM with them everyday ？
I have talked a lot with friends I haven't talked to in a while because of the Corona disaster.

I also feel you are just someone who is beating up on Hawaii.
"XXX slapping" is an internet term for "XXX criticism".

• ワイズ
• 2021/11/12 (Fri) 19:41
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To Rocco Moco

Thank you for following me.

But you know, it's a waste of time to say anything to a bothered person.

• Crawfish
• 2021/11/12 (Fri) 20:00
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Mr. Loco Moco

Thank you ！
That's what you meant by "beating Hawaii". I can't write in these places unless I learn internet terms too. I wrote many things I didn't like about Hawaii, so I thought it could have been called criticism of Hawaii. You told me to take care of my depression.
I understand. You said, "There are many good restaurants," but I wrote that because I can't afford to go out to eat often because of the high prices. It is not that I don't go out to eat at all.

"It's easy to make Japanese acquaintances," you said, but I didn't try to make Japanese acquaintances because I didn't particularly need them.
I am sorry that it sounds like I am complaining.

"How can I find good things about Hawaii ？ Can you give me any advice ？?"
I should have written something like ？
Would you take this as advice about my problems? ？

I heard zoom has lax security, so I talk to my friends in other ways. It wasn't that I didn't do anything at all, it was just that I hadn't talked to them recently.

Is it my imagination that I feel like I'm getting fried no matter what I say here?

• ロコモコ
• 2021/11/12 (Fri) 20:10
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#33 Mr. Wise

Mr. Wise was right, I was 'bothered'.

• Crawfish
• 2021/11/12 (Fri) 20:15
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Mr. Loco Moco
Mr. Wise

Is "bother" also an internet term ？
Does it mean someone who asks a lot of questions ？?

• Crawfish
• 2021/11/12 (Fri) 20:16
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Dear A

You are so right.
I posted it and I am responsible for responding to you, but how long will it last? I want to stop now.

• ワイキキ
• 2021/11/12 (Fri) 20:35
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Crawfish

"There are many good restaurants," I wrote that because I cannot afford to go out to eat often because of the high prices. It is not that I don't go out to eat at all.

→ Poor people are happier not to live in Hawaii.

Because they can't afford it, they can't make friends and go to restaurants, they can't afford to volunteer or learn.
All of this is the root cause of the lack of money ？

You can speak English, then why don't you work ？
There are no jobs for Japanese companies in Hawaii now, but there are many jobs available! There are no jobs for Japanese companies in Hawaii right now.

• Crawfish
• 2021/11/12 (Fri) 20:50
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Dear Waikiki

I think you are right.
I can't argue with that. I think that lack of money is at the root of all problems.
Living in Hawaii is heartbreakingly hard for poor people.
Yes, I will start by finding a job.

Thank you for your on point comments.

• ラピュタ
• 2021/11/13 (Sat) 13:59
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Crawfish-san

Even if you don't like Hawaii, you probably followed your husband because he doesn't mind.

Several Japanese women who could not keep up with their husbands' transfers who loved Hawaii and did not want to move to the mainland, got divorced.

If two couples work together, they will realize how fortunate Hawaii is to have Japanese people.

Most Japanese who have lived on the mainland have experienced racism ？ Hawaii is a predominantly Japanese land

You will be treated well, not racially. And you can get more Japanese food than on the mainland, and there are many Sushi restaurants.

Not having to buy winter clothes will also clear out your closet.

After a month in Hawaii, this wonderful climate has cured my depression. Rheumatism was cured.
I have also heard that the climate in Hawaii cured my depression within a month.
Please look for the positive aspects.

• 本当だね
• mail
• 2021/11/14 (Sun) 21:30
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You are absolutely right Crawfish.
Bad things about Hawaii
are not like this.
There are probably more.
Then
are there any good things about Hawaii …
I am sure there are many good things.
The point is
where you look …
if you look at the bad, you will only complain
if you look at the good, you will only be grateful
you have the choice what to look at in life.
You are free to do so.
I came to Hawaii 20 years ago,
I thought, "If I come to Hawaii for pleasure, it's heaven ， If I live here, it's hell
.
I realized that no matter where you live, it's always about where your eyes are
.
When I was living in Japan, I was living my life taking it for granted without feeling "how wonderful Japan is"
.
After coming to Hawaii, I have learned many good things about Japan ，
and I am now proud to be Japanese.
I was able to spend 20 years in Hawaii, which made me realize many things.

• 焼き魚は大根おろしで
• mail
• 2021/11/15 (Mon) 22:37
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Mr. Crawfish
If you are from the Mainland and would rather complain about the lack of things every day, why don't you go back to Japan for a while ？
However, there might be a risk that your husband will get a girlfriend while you are separated. However, there is a risk that your husband may get a girlfriend while you are separated. If you were to live so earnestly, you would be suffocated. Make friends first and go out. I hope you can get away from the internet ！.

• Akahiki
• 2022/03/04 (Fri) 12:51
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Dear Crawfish

I recently returned to Hawaii after a 10 year absence due to a job transfer. This is my wife's first time in Hawaii. She doesn't complain to me, but I'm sure she's confused and depressed about life in Hawaii. As a husband, first of all, I am sorry for giving her a hard time. And thank you so much for following me.

• こーの字
• 2022/03/04 (Fri) 17:52
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I guess it depends on where your standard of happiness is.

For me,
the beautiful ocean is right next to me,
I can get to know pleasant locals,
the climate is stable, and
it suits me.
It is also good that Japanese foods are easily available.
I also enjoy learning about the history of Hawaiians, Nikkei, and immigrants.

Of course, there is a lot to think about in terms of finances.
For now, I try to keep the expenses I keep down to a minimum, and I'm getting by.

However, this is really an individual value, so
just because others are enjoying themselves doesn't mean you have to feel that way, and
conversely, because you are not enjoying yourself, it doesn't mean you should deny others.

and I have written my feelings.
You need not reply to me.
I hope you will find some good solution.

• アイちゃん
• 2022/04/04 (Mon) 01:53
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Crawfish

It took me quite a while to get used to life here after I came to Hawaii. Sometimes I still see a lot of things I don't like.

Japan is cheap, convenient, delicious, fun, and has four seasons.

I understand your feelings.

Some cold Japanese are throwing cold words at you, but you can ignore these strange Japanese.
There are a lot of strange Japanese in Hawaii
There are more stupid and shit people
bragging just because they live in Hawaii.
They don't have friends or family in Japan, so they say Hawaii is better than Japan ！ How dare they! They are poor people who have no place to go back to Japan.

Let's leave the stupid cold Japanese alone

They can complain and complain as much as they want.
You are free to say whatever you want. ！


To the scumbags who criticized Crawfish, don't say cold words all the time to people who are complaining about their problems.
You should be warmer ？
You live in Hawaii, so you should be more aloha ！ before you say so, be nice to people!

• j自由人
• 2022/04/04 (Mon) 05:55
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Dear Crawfish
I moved to Hawaii a long time ago because I was attracted to the good old days in Hawaii. Although I am not attracted to the convenience of Hawaii today, I prefer to live in Hawaii where I can relax even if I am poor and have no time to relax, rather than living in Japan where I feel suffocated. I am happy to return to Japan once in a while to spend time with people I have missed, eat delicious food, soak in hot springs, and return to Hawaii to look forward to my next trip to Japan. I am comfortable living in an environment where I can do what I want to do and try new things without worrying about my age or what people around me think of me. If you are more comfortable living in Japan or Mainland Japan than living here, then go to a place where you feel happy and live there while feeling happy. Let's live in a place where you can feel happy. Ask yourself what you want most right now and how you can be happy. This day will never come back. Let's love and care for yourself the most so that you can live a life with no regrets. It is your own precious life that belongs to no one else.

• J
• mail
• 2022/04/04 (Mon) 12:39
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I used to live in the Mainland too, so I think I know how you feel ！
I have lived in Hawaii for about 10 years or more, and I think that prices will seem less expensive if you make your own money. On the other hand, if you travel to other places, you will start to feel lucky because everything is cheap. They say that if you live in the city, you will be happy, and your happiness will come from yourself, but I think it depends a lot on your interactions with your friends and the people around you. You may not be able to make good friends while you think you don't like many things, but as you enjoy your life and start to be surrounded by good people, I think you will enjoy living in Hawaii.

• 和
• 2022/04/05 (Tue) 02:01
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I agree with Aichan ！
Hawaii seems to be the right place for me and I am living comfortably, but
I wonder how someone can say such mean things to someone who is suffering hard ？.
I think the person writing this must be living an unhappy life with a lot of complaints ？
I can feel the awkwardness so much that it's scary.
I wish they would be so generous as to complain on the internet.

Crawfish, I hope you can find something to ask for.