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• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2022/10/14 (Fri) 11:03
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The Can't Throw Away Syndrome

It seems you are not alone.　Rest assured, you are not alone.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A7N85PRcTbk

• お気楽
• 2022/10/15 (Sat) 18:45
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I am in my 60s. I have a grave. I have also decided to have it put in.
I have a lot of stuff. I can't get rid of it. But I have room in my garage for my car. I buy only the bare necessities these days. I buy what I want because I need to have fun. Let's throw away what we don't need. Throw out what is old, worthless, and unused.
What I can't throw away, I will keep until I die, and my family will either get rid of it or keep what it is worth.

• メリー
• 2022/10/15 (Sat) 21:08
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＞ I buy only the bare necessities these days

#3 you are right.

Today I made more and more scraps for cleaning with lots of clothes.

Then, I will switch my mindset to think that I don't need to get rid of things that I wish I had

and get rid of them.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2022/10/16 (Sun) 07:28
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4 I made more and more scraps for cleaning with a lot of clothes.
It would have been a shame to do that and still be able to wear them.

• お気楽
• 2022/10/16 (Sun) 09:50
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Today I made more and more scraps for cleaning with lots of clothes.

I do that too. Paper towels are expensive and I used to donate them, but when I saw the streets full of clothes, I thought it would be better to use them as rags. If I use them, I throw them away. Then I switched to thinking that what I wish I had, I wouldn't be bothered without.

Good. This thinking. I can't throw away things that are advertised as convenient or useful, but I end up not using them, and I can't throw them away again.

• 無
• 2022/10/16 (Sun) 17:29
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In my case, after I renounced my life, I awakened to my true self and became disgusted with my current life and became apathetic about many things. I want to go back to Japan and live a peaceful life, but I can't go back to Japan until my children are grown up.

• 無
• 2022/10/16 (Sun) 17:59
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Maybe so

I can't wait to go back to Japan

• m
• 2022/10/16 (Sun) 18:06
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Don't be fooled by the word "decluttering. You will end up throwing away things you need and having to buy more.

• プレゼント
• 2022/10/16 (Sun) 18:19
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I get all kinds of gifts from wedding gifts to birthdays, but once the fun of opening them is over, most of them are disposable. Returning gifts is also a hassle, to be honest, and I can't say I don't want a gift after I buy it.

• てふ
• 2022/10/16 (Sun) 19:19
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Discarding is difficult.
It is up to the person to discard or not.

• 限られた時間を有効に
• 2022/10/16 (Sun) 19:34
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Your Japanese mother told you that you are wasting your time abandoning your old life.
Now enjoy the rest of your life as you please.

• ウケる
• 2022/10/16 (Sun) 20:27
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↑
Making the most of limited time ！

• ミイラ
• 2022/10/16 (Sun) 20:45
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If I knew how long my limited time was, I could use it more effectively ！
Reality, it doesn't work that way. Crying.

• 豊かな生活
• 2022/10/17 (Mon) 08:45
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Fewer relationships and fewer things make more room.

• 無駄に物も出費も増やさない派
• 2022/10/17 (Mon) 10:56
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If you only get involved with people you like, you'll stop complaining.

• すっきり
• 2022/10/17 (Mon) 11:31
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Oh yeah, and disconnect from relationships.

• てんぱーこ
• 2022/10/17 (Mon) 21:41
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It would be easy if I could only date people I like, but that's not always possible.
Is it just me?

• てんぱーこ
• 2022/10/17 (Mon) 23:05
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Yes, you guessed it.

• メリー
• 2022/10/22 (Sat) 21:44
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I used to look for things ＾ ＾ ： a lot.

So I named my suitcase a temporary storage place, and

I would throw in things I couldn't do without. Before, when I wanted to use it, I used to spend 2 ， 3 days

searching all over the room, but now I just go to the temporary storage

and I don't have to stress about searching. ＾ ＾

• トラウマ
• 2022/10/23 (Sun) 00:45
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Konmari's decluttering method was also popular, but look for mentalist Daigo's book on decluttering.
The science-oriented way of thinking seemed to suit me and I was able to step away from it.

I don't know if this will help you, but I have moved a lot, and every time I moved, I suffered from packing and threw away things I couldn't bear to throw away, and I thought I would suffer that pain again when I bought things. I have learned to choose the minimum necessary items carefully.

• メリー
• 2022/10/23 (Sun) 04:08
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＃ Mr. 26

＞ You don't have to go to the trouble of leaving your luggage at home ？
It makes no sense

I guess my words were not enough.


I don't mean that I leave it there somewhere, but in my own suitcase in my own house.

That's what we call temporary storage, （ lol ）

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2022/10/23 (Sun) 08:03
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If you store them in boxes or clear plastic boxes,
write down what you put in them and put them on the box for easy identification.
It is easy to see even if they are stacked in a closet.
If you have a computer, you can write
living room, bedroom, closet and other storage locations in Excel, etc.
Write the contents and make a list
so you can open Excel and see where the items you need are stored. It is convenient to know where the needed items are stored as soon as you open the Excel file.

• うわ
• 2022/10/23 (Sun) 14:53
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I live in a dump to look for stuff for a couple of days ？.

• JENNI
• 2022/10/26 (Wed) 09:26
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＃ I agree with 28 Trauma. The good thing about decluttering is that it has changed the way I shop since then. When I was shopping
I started to think about what I really wanted to buy and whether I needed these things or not.

• 1日1捨
• 2022/10/26 (Wed) 10:53
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I make it a habit to look for unused, broken or dirty items and throw away one a day.

• イラチ
• 2022/10/26 (Wed) 15:02
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My partner has a lot of stuff and the more I declutter, the more his useless stuff gets stored in that space.