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Vivinavi Los Angelesひがみっぽい性格
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- sesera
- 2013/01/17 19:52
私の父親は昔から母親をののしり自分勝手でケンカをすると机をひっくり返したりして母親が陰で泣いているのを私はいつも見ていました。
父は酒を飲むと凶暴になり母や私たちに当たり散らして暴れ、そんな父が本当に恐怖でした。
私の性格は気が小さいくせに負けず嫌いでプライドが高いところがあり嫉妬深く、結婚した今でも不安感の中で暮らしています。
ひがみっぽい性格で素直になるというのはほんとうに難しくて屈託のない人を見るとうらやましいものです。
人の幸せや成功を見るのがいやな時もあり、そんな時は相手に対して嫌味を言ったり無視したりしてしまいます。
自分と同じ立場or自分以下だと思っていた人が、自分が得られなかったものを得たと知った時、異常に動揺し、自分の幸せが侵害されたような気持ちになります。
だから、嫉妬するんですよね。
なので周りの人が成功しているように思えると、
自分にはそんな事を実現できる実力がないと深層心理では薄々
分かっているので普段は隠れているひがみの性格が出てしまいます。
こんな性格を直すことはできるものでしょうか?
- #45
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せせらさんへ。
小さいときから受けた、事はそう簡単には直らないと
思うんですが、でもそう今話してる事とは、自分を少しでも
変えてみようか、と思ってるんではないでしょうか?
過去の事を色々話す事とはいい事です。何も昔の事を喋らない
よりも、一歩前進と言う事です。
だから、一度友達がそんなことを話したら、是非それは良かった 値、とかいって上げたら、友達も喜ぶし、自分も結構すがすが
しいものです。何でも変わった事をいうには、最初がエネルギー
が居る者です。このまま同じような人生は自分を小さくして
やはり、HAPPYではないと思います。
人の事で喜ぶ事ができると、自分にもゆとりが出来たように
楽しいものです。そしたらいつか自分にも嬉しい事が起きる
ようになるものです。
だから、せせらさん、頑張ってね。
ひろし。
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