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• 友達ゼロ
• 2024/05/25 (Sat) 12:49
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I don't have any friends in Hawaii either. When my children were small, I had a lot of mom friends, but they were just mom friends, and once they started kinder, I stopped socializing with them. I also made friends at the Japanese language supplementary school, but I found the Japanese community to be a very difficult and troublesome place to be. They were mean to me, talked behind my back, invited me out for lunch once in a while ？, and when I was happy to go out with them, they were actually soliciting me for insurance or selling Fat Dan cosmetics. I don't know where they came from or why they live in Hawaii, because Hawaii is a place where people's identities are unknown.

I had a fight with my husband the other day and left home unexpectedly, but I laughed at myself because I had no friends and nowhere to go. I didn't know any restaurants that a middle-aged woman could go to alone, and I was afraid to walk outside alone after dark, so I went home before it got dark. Still, I don't really want to have friends in Hawaii.

I am serious, methodical, responsible, caring, and easily hurt, so making friends with people I don't know well that I meet in Hawaii is mildly stressful for me. I try to keep my relationships with people in Hawaii as shallow as possible and avoid deep relationships because I don't want to trust them as friends and then be betrayed and hurt again.

• コオリ
• 2024/05/27 (Mon) 20:09
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Thank you for your personal and sympathetic email and further comments ！
Off topic, but today I saw a family living in Hawaii that I think is quite famous on YouTube. The Japanese wife was sparkling, and I was a little despairing because she looked like heaven and earth to me. I imagined that they were probably going to have an early dinner at a restaurant after that and watch the lantern floating ceremony. But I think he is quite a hard worker...he is always a wonderful person with his YouTube dinner menus.

• choco chip
• 2024/05/27 (Mon) 21:42
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I am a woman living in Hawaii.
US will have a huge gap between rich and poor, not just in Hawaii.
If you are a homeowner, you can exchange information about properties, but if you talk to renters
who are not, they will be turned off.
Whether single, married, or divorced.
I was also solicited by more than 10 different religions and network businesses.
I've been in Hawaii long enough to take it as a plus and wonder
what kind of invitation I'll get next time ！ I'm trying to think of new discoveries . I can't
buy network business products unless someone introduces me to them. There are so many excellent products that I've come to believe that I don't have to be interested in the business to just be a loyal customer. With people who don't have cars, it's a burden to have to drop them off and pick them up for lunch or tea. I think it would make a better impression on everyone if you could take an Uber or Taxi yourself. Saving money is important, but I think it is also important to invest in yourself. If you ask someone to pick you up and drop you off, thank them. You will have a longer lasting relationship with people who have common sense.
If I could meet like-minded people, we could be friends. I think it is a good idea.

Unlike in Japan, everyone's status〔Temporal or Permanent(Permanent)》is different, and for the sake of future relationships
Everyone is used to asking each other about status when they first meet each other.

• いろいろ
• 2024/05/28 (Tue) 12:51
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I have had various experiences in the mainland U.S., Japan, and Hawaii. I have lived in all of them for more than 10 years. I have had good times and bad times, but I am currently doing my best in Hawaii. I am such a person, but let's all be friends~ ！ I am looking forward to meeting you all. Let's have an off-line meeting or something. ！ I'd love to have a drink with you all!

• TV
• Yesterday 22:35
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I myself have only two Japanese friends. I met them recently, too.

I have been involved with others, but I am not in contact with them now. I will not contact them in the future.

I don't like the Japanese community in Waikiki, so I don't go near them at all, and
I live mostly in English.

I don't like the Japanese community in Waikiki, so I don't go near them at all, and I live mostly in English. I have decided
not to get involved at all.

• 911しゃん
• 2024/02/08 (Thu) 11:25
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you also said your doctor is Asian ？
I only want Asian people in charge ？

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2024/02/08 (Thu) 11:46
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Even food goes well with Asian food

It's hard at work today.

• 911しゃん
• 2024/02/08 (Thu) 12:15
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you have a hard time at work ？

• M
• 2024/05/08 (Wed) 06:17
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I recommend SIGNAL DRIVING SCHOOL.

• 紅夜叉　　　　　　　　　　　　　　.
• 2024/05/08 (Wed) 14:02
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I think the Mexican community is larger.
I can't get a Mexican guy you know to introduce you ？.

• rak
• 2024/05/24 (Fri) 22:48
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I recently asked a question about clinic payments. I was debited right after that. Did you check to see if the check you used twice, NON-chan, was debited from your account ？ If you've already paid and they debit more, maybe you should call the clinic ？ I wonder if it is possible to get the check back that you sent
I too would like to know about other people's experiences.

• のんちゃん
• 2024/05/27 (Mon) 18:02
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Rak
yes, I sent two checks
and they still haven't been debited and I don't know where they are
I didn't know it was so late. I can't even talk to people in person
so I don't know what's going on 😮‍💨

• のんちゃん
• 2024/05/27 (Mon) 18:07
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Rak
I sent two checks too, not realizing how slow it was. I still haven't even been debited yet.
I don't even know what's going on since I can't talk to people in person. I don't know what will happen😣.

• Ai
• 2024/01/25 (Thu) 14:44
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DMV Topic.

• 親日武装戦線「さそり座の女」
• 2024/01/29 (Mon) 08:02
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I asked a friend of mine in his 70s and
he said that when he passed 70, there was a departmental test and it had 20 questions.
When I took it, it had increased to 25 questions.

• グリーンカード ホルダー
• mail
• 2024/02/06 (Tue) 16:56
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Sooner or later, everyone will be gone from the world, including Showa Otoko-an, of course, and the old folks who live in Los Angeles will have nothing to do but write to the DMV with their new address, driver's license and name, and send it to us with a stamp attached.

• 会計士
• 2024/02/08 (Thu) 13:00
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＞ If I write to them and give them my new address, will they send me a new license to my new address?


You could try contacting them at the DMV and they could tell you something.

• T
• 2024/05/05 (Sun) 11:01
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It's easy.

• Halo
• 2024/05/13 (Mon) 16:12
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Is it something that is not available on the Japanese shopping site ？? Even if there is no shopping site, if there is a Japanese site
for the brand, you can order it there.

• Raul
• 2024/05/14 (Tue) 13:41
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#2 I agree with Halo.

If it is a Hawaii only item,
if you have a trusted friend back in Japan, you could have them ship it to Japan
and then have it shipped domestically to J's parents.

• J
• 2024/05/16 (Thu) 16:57
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Halo and Raul, thank you
No, it's only available in Hawaii and $ costs over 2000 dollars.

• ぱすぽ
• mail
• 2024/05/08 (Wed) 17:07
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Many times in the past, minor children have entered Japan ・ short term with only a US passport.

After the pandemic, there was a time when you could only enter Japan with a Japanese passport （ Japanese nationality ） but
now you can enter normally with an American passport.
In fact, last summer, I entered Japan with an American passport to use the JR Pass, and had no problem.

The only difference between the two passports is whether you have to wait in line for Japanese nationals or foreigners （ or visitors ） at the immigration checkpoint at the airport.
The only other difference is that every time I go to the airport, I am told by the airport staff, "Next time, please enter the country with a Japanese passport. I don't know why, but I am usually told that every time.


For your information.

• Sophia
• 2024/05/08 (Wed) 21:36
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Thank you very much for your prompt advice, Showa Ototto-san and Pasupo-san. 😃

＞ Speaking of differences in passports, I am also concerned about the difference between waiting in line for Japanese nationals （ or foreigners ） visitors
at immigration at the airport This is also a concern, and I would like my accompanying adult （ uncle, from his perspective We decided to have the foreign （ visitor ） queue with an American ） who is an uncle in his own right.
My siblings and I, another Japanese national with an unexpired Japanese passport, got in the Japanese line to enter Japan.

I feel much better now. Again, thank you very much for your helpful information.

• flower
• 2024/04/27 (Sat) 16:01
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My son was also on the waiting list.
I have heard that it is advantageous to attend summer school. We don't participate in it, though.

• ファームママ
• 2024/04/30 (Tue) 20:49
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Thank you very much for your reply.

I will be attending summer school ！

• Punahou kids mama
• mail
• 2024/05/08 (Wed) 13:12
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If your child is smart and obeys the teacher, it will be advantageous to send him to Summer, but if he does not listen and is not very smart, it is better not to send him to Summer and, on the contrary, to hide his weaknesses. In summer, everything will be seen through.
You need to make a legitimate judgment of the child in general, not based on the greed of the parents or the opinion of the teacher who is being paid a monthly fee for the lessons.
Good luck 🌈

• Ken
• 2024/05/06 (Mon) 21:46
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There is an organization that supports seniors called Project Dana.
Please visit the following website and contact them if you like.


https://www.projectdana.org/about

• nuiloamama
• 2024/05/06 (Mon) 23:52
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A woman who used to live next door to me did the same thing
and since it was a house and not a condo, I couldn't talk to the property manager, I couldn't contact my relatives, etc. as they became more aware
and I did some research and contacted them here.
I'll put up the site.

ADRC HAWAII

https://www.elderlyaffairs.com/#:~:text=We%20help%20people%20find%20assistance,at%20808%2D768%2D 7700.

• Liliko’i
• 2024/05/08 (Wed) 00:09
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#2 Dear Ken
#3 Dear nuiloamama

Sorry for the late reply. It took a while for this consultation topic to be reflected on Vivinavi after I posted it, and in the meantime, I had a lot of problems, so I called 911 and asked for advice. Then I found out that the police and fire department (救急) had a history of several cases where she had collapsed on the road and was taken to the hospital, and that they had tried to support her from the state, but she was adamantly refusing to do so. She trusts us and listens to us, so we got between her and the staff sent by the state, and today she finally convinced us to accept state support. We were having trouble knowing how far to intervene since they are not our relatives, but we were relieved that we managed to bridge the gap to the support group. I will keep the information you gave me in case something similar happens again in the future. Thank you very much.

• 断捨離
• 2024/04/05 (Fri) 09:31
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In terms of security, Santa Monica is rather safer. Santa Monica has many homeless people, though. In terms of economics, El Camino College is better in terms of rent and food. Also, 20 years ago when I was a student, El Camino was very, very loose.

There aren't many students in this community, so I think you'd get fresher information if you DM people who go to either college on Instagram or FB and ask them directly.
In any case, good luck with your new beginning.

• 他がいい
• 2024/04/08 (Mon) 05:39
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Image of many Japanese in both

• 倍金萬
• mail
• 2024/04/08 (Mon) 10:01
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If you really want to improve your "English conversation" skills, come to San Fernando Valley where there are very few Japanese people.

I don't know if there is a kind of college called "Comic College" here, but

there are some non-UC State Colleges in this valley.

There is also a college near my house called California State University, Northridge.