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1. | Vivinavi Hawaii For girls who are in the process of getting marrie...(5kview/31res) |
Relationship / Friendship | 2023/11/23 11:46 |
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2. | Vivinavi Hawaii Couple Counseling(933view/1res) |
Relationship / Friendship | 2023/08/06 03:48 |
3. | Vivinavi Portland Valentine's - where to find a Japanese partne...(436view/0res) |
Relationship / Friendship | 2023/02/11 19:08 |
4. | Vivinavi Urayasu Urayasu Citizens Only Wedding Plan(529view/0res) |
Relationship / Friendship | 2022/05/10 16:25 |
5. | Vivinavi Nagano Yui × Migration Online social event to connect new...(191view/0res) |
Relationship / Friendship | 2021/11/11 11:03 |
6. | Vivinavi San Francisco this weekend(773view/0res) |
Relationship / Friendship | 2021/09/28 14:04 |
7. | Vivinavi Los Angeles 男性方に筆問です。(25kview/73res) |
Relationship / Friendship | 2020/12/14 21:52 |
8. | Vivinavi Hawaii 国際結婚、旦那のパワハラ(10kview/28res) |
Relationship / Friendship | 2020/12/01 22:01 |
9. | Vivinavi Los Angeles どんな人と実際に出会えましたか?(84kview/286res) |
Relationship / Friendship | 2020/10/14 09:45 |
10. | Vivinavi Los Angeles 自粛で腹が立つ夫の言動(28kview/236res) |
Relationship / Friendship | 2020/08/07 09:39 |
Vivinavi HawaiiFor girls who are in the process of getting married
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- Allure
- 2023/10/01 13:47
I am a woman living in Hawaii.
I heard from a male friend of mine who is engaged to be married.
He said that girls who are Japanese tourists and are engaged to be married don't know too much about the high cost of living in Hawaii.
You shouldn't say you want to get married, move to Hawaii and become a housewife.
No matter how beautiful you are, how healthy you are, how good your character is, marriage is a life.
Most couples living in Hawaii work together. Even the wives of doctors.
The cost of living is 2-3 times that of Japan. Japan is the only developed country where prices and incomes have remained almost the same for decades.Hawaii is America, so men and women are equal. It is not uncommon to find couples where the wife earns more than the husband.
If you want to have children, you should earn your own money as well as your husband's.
If your husband has already paid off the mortgage, that's still fine, but if you both buy the house and pay for it together, you can pay it off faster and have more credit in your own history in the future.
If the husband dies first, the wife won't even get a survivor's pension until she is in her 60s.
Too few companies will hire a Japanese woman in her 60s who has never worked in Hawaii at all.
Start working in your 20s, 30s, and 40s to gain experience. I used to be a tourist living in Japan, so I would be very happy if I could be of help.This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
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- 類友
- 2023/10/30 (Mon) 14:18
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#27 P
So you get married, regret it, and get divorced.
You finally meet a man who makes the same or more money than you and remarry. Japanese women.
If you live in Hawaii, there are many Hawaii men looking for Japanese women. Regardless of nationality.
Japanese women are popular not only with Asian, Middle Eastern, and mixed, but also with white and black men, so good luck Japanese men ! !.This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
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Are white men still popular these days ?
I don't think so in Hawaii.
I feel that there are surprisingly many people who remarry Japanese after divorcing white men.This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
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- second
- 2023/11/19 (Sun) 20:14
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# 29 Ichi-san
I guess it's a matter of fate and preference.
Some people have a Japanese husband the first time in Japan and a white husband the second time in Hawaii, and a black husband.
Some people are also white the second time and black the second time.
I have never met a Japanese man living in Hawaii whose wife is not Japanese ( White Black Asian other ).
I still wonder if many Japanese men are looking for Japanese women.This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
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- Two
- 2023/11/20 (Mon) 00:55
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Yes, I agree.
Japanese women have married and remarried to people of various races, not only Caucasians.
Japanese men have only met Japanese women who are wives.
If there are any men here in Vivinavi who have wives of non-Japanese race
I would be happy to hear various opinions.This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
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Dear Second and Two
Thank you for your reply.I learned a lot.
It is a marriage, isn't it?
But have you married or remarried a white or black man
and has it lasted ? long?This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
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Vivinavi HawaiiCouple Counseling
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- Kanikani22
- 2023/08/06 03:28
I'm sorry, I just wanted to post this to see if anyone knows anything about this.
If anyone has been to couples counseling, I would like to know the good and the bad ?
I had to quit my job, and now that I quit, I spend more time with my husband, and I am very stressed and worried.We both don't want a divorce. He is usually a good person when he is in a good mood, as well as in terms of finances in his old age.
Maybe it's his age, but ? he talks more intimidatingly than before.
When I point it out, he says I'm wrong, and when I start recording him, he takes on a kinder tone.
He is not fair. ! In front of a third party, he is a quiet husband.
I see couples counseling in movies, so I wonder if this really improves the relationship ?.
It seems expensive.
Please let me know if you know anything about it.This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
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- Sean0914
- 2023/08/06 (Sun) 03:48
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I have had the pleasure of working with Dr. Setsuko Yano a long time ago.
It depends on the person whether it is effective or not,
butwell, it changed my viewpoint and I am glad in some ways.
I was also able to use HMSA's insurance.This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
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Vivinavi PortlandValentine's - where to find a Japanese partner in Portland
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- bluesamurai22
- 2023/02/11 19:07
Could anyone please advise on where to find single Japanese in their 20s and 30s in Portland?
Thank you in advance.
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Vivinavi UrayasuUrayasu Citizens Only Wedding Plan
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- ぱらぱら
- 2022/05/10 16:25
Sheraton ・ Grande ・ Tokyo Bay ・ Hotel is offering an exclusive plan for Urayasu residents !
https://modules.marriott.com/wedding-fair/jp/tyosi-sheraton-grande-tokyo-bay-hotelThis text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
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Vivinavi NaganoYui × Migration Online social event to connect new love
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- 瞳
- 2021/11/11 11:03
There is going to be an online social event in Chino on December 4.
Looks like it's for Chino City residents up to about 40 years old.
https://s-kantan.jp/city-chino-nagano-u/offer/offerList_detail.action?tempSeq=15256This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
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Vivinavi San Franciscothis weekend
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- chrisT22
- 2021/09/28 14:04
I live in the Bay Area. I am looking for a woman to meet this weekend. Please contact me if you are willing.
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Vivinavi Los Angeles男性方に筆問です。
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- 2020/12/08 02:12
付き合ってる彼女が好きなのに浮気する理由はなんですか?
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- 誰の話?
- 2020/12/14 (Mon) 11:50
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好きな女の乱れた姿を見れないから好きではない女としかできないと言っていた人がいました。
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- 昭和のおとっつぁん
- 2020/12/14 (Mon) 15:00
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↑好きな女をモノにできない男の言い訳では。
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- 昭和のおとっつぁん
- 2020/12/14 (Mon) 19:22
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↑ かわいそうなあんた、トホホ。
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- 好きな女
- 2020/12/14 (Mon) 21:38
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の気持ち悪い所見たくないとか?
可愛く乱れればいいけど。
変な声の奴いるよね。なんか気持ち悪い喘ぎ方。仕方無いんだけど萎える…
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- 2020/12/14 (Mon) 21:52
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可愛いのは全部演技です。
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Vivinavi Hawaii国際結婚、旦那のパワハラ
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- Love
- 2020/11/14 09:01
国際結婚をしたばかりですが、コロナでまだソーシャルセキュリティナンバーが届かず仕事が出来ません。そして、引越してから5ヶ月ぐらい持病があり身体が本調子ではない状況でした。日本の仕事を全て辞めてハワイに来ました。48年間独身だったので結婚というものへの価値観がかなり偏っているのは事実です。
旦那から
「お前がハワイに来たくて来たんだろ」
「日本に帰れ」
「家賃、生活費は俺が払ってるんだ。お前はなにもしてないだろ」
「体調が悪いのは言い訳だ」
などを喧嘩の度によく言われます。これはアメリカでは普通ですか?
もしどなたかおススメのカウンセラーをご存知でしたら教えてください。
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結婚して日もまだ浅いうちからこんな事を言える男は延々続きますよ。貴女はカウンセリングを受けながら今後もモラハラやパワハラに耐えられると思いますか?
48にして日本に今までのキャリアも全て捨ててハワイに来た意味は有りますか?こんな心の狭い男と一緒に過ごすぐらいなら一人でいた方がよっぽど自由では有りませんか?よく考えてみて下さい。
私も専業主婦で旦那はアメリカ人ですがこんな事は言いませんよ。
って言うか言われたらさっさと離婚しますね。理解を得られない様な人間と生活を共にするぐらい苦痛な事は無いですから。
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物価の高いハワイで専業主婦だけしていてなんにも文句言われないなんて
とっても幸せですね。(ちょっと皮肉)
こういうひどいことを口にはしないとしても思っている人は多そうですよね。
家にいるだけでお前は何もしていないだろう的な。
コロナでみんなストレスたまっているから特にね。
離婚するかしないかはこの人が決めることですよね。
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- オーツ
- 2020/11/29 (Sun) 12:15
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#1LOVEさん
LOVEさんはどのようにして旦那様と出会いましたか?
日本から引越して来たということは、ネットかお見合いでしょうか?
ハワイの物価高等のリサーチをしないで引越して来たのなら、旦那さんのパワハラだけでなく色々失望したでしょう。
旦那さんも同い年だとしたら、定年まで約15-20年。48歳でまだ賃貸でしたら、老後破産ですよ。
ハワイでリタイア夫婦と知り合って、賃貸の人に出会った事がありません。息子さんがご両親の賃貸を払ってあげている方には
出会った事があります。
賃貸と年金が同額なら、生活出来ないでしょう。よっぽどの預貯金がない限り。
リタイアする年齢で、住宅ローンが終えていたら、年金で生活出来ると思います。
そのような旦那さんと一緒に家を買いたくないと思ったら、別れたほうがいいと思います。
離婚して、自立して、日本人女性1人で家を買う人も少なくありません。
稼ぐ自信があったら、ハワイで頑張って欲しいし。そうでないなら、日本帰国したほうがいいでしょう。
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- 通りすがり3
- 2020/11/29 (Sun) 13:08
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#25 元風俗嬢さん
あなたが活躍稼げるようにハワイの法律を変えるように申請して下さい。
ご存知かと思いますが、先日ハワイで31歳の日系人レイプ犯が50万ドルを払って釈放されました。
被害に遭った40代の女性は重症です。
私達女性の敵です。ハワイの治安が悪化しています。
風俗が合法化されれば、レイプも減るでしょう。
日本人女性はナンパされやすいし、犯人は出会い系サイトに登録しているかもしれないので
本当に気を付けましょう。
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- 罪と罰
- 2020/11/30 (Mon) 12:20
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縁あって結婚した新婚のカップルに離婚した方が良いなんて書いて後日、読み直して反省してます。
よく納得いくまで外の景色でも見ながら冷静に話し合われたら良いと思います。旦那さんも色々なストレスから奥さんにしか当たりどころが無いのだと思います。
Loveさんも心の声を発して行く内に楽になって行くのでは無いでしょうか。こんなに沢山の人が質問にアドバイスをしてるのですから1人じゃ無いです。Loveさんは大丈夫ですよ。
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Vivinavi Los Angelesどんな人と実際に出会えましたか?
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- ペガサス
- 2020/02/28 22:18
Vivinaviの仲間探しを使った事がある人は多いと思いますが。。。どんなお相手と実際に出会えましたか? 出会えた相手の性と年齢、そして出会い目的を教えてください!
これは単なるアンケートで、結果は皆様の
何らかの参考になればと思っています。
ヨロシクお願いします。
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- あほ
- 2020/09/18 (Fri) 20:43
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セックスしたくらいで旦那に勝った気になる器もあそこも小さいひきこもりw
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- 昭和のおとっつぁん
- 2020/09/18 (Fri) 20:49
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おっと、俺の悪口はそこまでだ。
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- ざこ
- 2020/10/14 (Wed) 06:36
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おっと、俺の悪口もそこまでだ。
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- 昭和のおとっつぁん
- 2020/10/14 (Wed) 07:10
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おっと、くだらん書き込みはそこまでだ。
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- ぷっ!
- 2020/10/14 (Wed) 09:45
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以上香檻がお届けしました。
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Vivinavi Los Angeles自粛で腹が立つ夫の言動
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- うちの場合
- 2020/05/24 19:58
亭主元気で留守がいい!
愛情は消えていないけれど、本当に腹が立ちまくり!
世の夫諸君!妻の本音を聞きやがれ~!
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- 究極の選択
- 2020/08/04 (Tue) 23:22
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↑どっちもない
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- 良い子のサイト
- 2020/08/05 (Wed) 10:52
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ワキガの人は股間も臭いぞwww
ぷっ!
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- いつでも利用可
- 2020/08/05 (Wed) 12:01
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232 股間は異性を引きつけるフェロモンがたっぷり。
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- 通りすがり
- 2020/08/06 (Thu) 23:04
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うちの旦那。
リモートワークで1日中家にいるくせに家事一切しない。
私が仕事から帰ってクタクタの状態で食事作って片付けて、掃除して。
1日中トイレ使ってる人が一切掃除しないってどういうこと?
トイレ掃除当番制にしようって言ったら、何で自分のタイミングで掃除させてもらえないの?掃除したい時にするから当番制は嫌だというので、そのトイレ(旦那が主に使う)だけ掃除せずに放置すること1ヶ月…その彼の言うタイミングは訪れず、結果私が耐えきれず掃除する羽目に。
そのくせ私が忙しくてオンラインでばかり買い物して家にダンボールが溜まったら、文句ばかり言う。
本当いい加減にして欲しい。
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