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38th Free Zoom Elderly Couples' Fights and How to Deal with Them

●Sponsored by ： Life Issatsukukai.　Life Isshukai is a One-Stop Senior Support Group for men and women over 60 www.jinseiippukukai.org
● Date and Time ： 5/11/24 (Sat) ） 6pm ～ 8pm
● Venue ： Zoom （ Invitation ONLY for pre-registrants ） Free
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●Marital strife is a necessary evil that accompanies marriage.　It has the benefit of strengthening the bond, but at the same time it often leads to divorce, and statistically two couples get married and one gets divorced.

●However, fights between older couples have somewhat different characteristics from those of other age groups.　
① Both spouses spend an extremely large amount of time at home, which increases the chances of friction.
② The couple continues to conduct their daily lives as before despite the need to change the division of roles that has been accepted as normal.
④ Increased financial insecurity and increased financial disputes due to separation from the workplace Increased physical ・ emotional stress due to aging, which can take the form of taking it out on the other spouse
⑤ Inability to choose divorce as easily as when younger <
⑥ That tragedy, which cannot change a person's character so much, can cause problems at life's turning point of retirement

● In an aging couple who must live in an environment of these trends ・, how do we ideally respond to them in order to live life to the fullest? How can we live our lives to the fullest?

● Also, frustrations that have built up over the years are more likely to explode with the increase in time spent living together.　This is because people, like God, cannot forgive anything.　It is also not easy to close one's eyes, give up, ignore, or ignore what is going on.　Anger tends to prevail.　And then a fight breaks out.

●Even if divorce is the solution, the adult children have their own agendas and will not allow divorce.　In reality, the reality of old age creates a sense of isolation, and it seems to take courage to be alone.　They also worry about whether their partner will be able to take care of them if they become ill.

In reality, many spouses do not divorce because they are afraid of a life after divorce that is not financially viable.　So divorce is not an option unless they are confident of their financial reserves and independence.　Of course, there are some people who are patient because they feel that if they hold out a little longer, the other spouse will pass away. 　 ♪ Patience, wait and see, when the day comes, the race to live longer seems to be the solution.

● Elderly couples fighting,
how on earth do they learn to get over it?
How to reconcile?　
How can a couple live their limited remaining life together in peace?

●In this issue, we would like to consider various aspects of marital quarrels among the elderly, a serious problem for the elderly.

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Theme ： Elderly Couples' Fights and How to Deal with Them_
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