Vivinavi

The environment you put yourself in is important.

People change from environment to environment, so if you can, you'd better try to put yourself in a good environment.

Mr. F, whom I know.
He used to be a cheerful person with a good personality who laughed a lot.
She was married to someone she met online.
However, her marriage is not going well, she complains a lot about everything, and she seems to be arguing with her husband constantly.

Stress, family discord, and finally illness.
Luckily, she has recovered from her illness, but her environment has not changed.

Mr. F's former cheerfulness and smile were gone, and even his personality had changed.
It may have been good that she was able to get married, but there was no point in ruining her life by putting her in an environment that did not suit her.

I hope that everyone will marry someone who suits them （ as much as possible, and not just on their own terms ）.
A "home, a house" should be a place where a family and a couple can feel safe and at home.
Don't be the type of person who likes the way you look and enjoys dating, only to have it turn into a painful life after marriage.

If you want to have a happy marriage,
it would be better to find a partner with whom you can be yourself and trust.

With someone who can create a happy and secure "home, home" together.